Friday, August 29, 2008

Where To Start?

Today I am not happy. I am extremely frustrated. I received bad news from Dr Staddon on my latest scans yesterday. I have to say I was blind sided. I was really expecting good news. My lingering dry cough has diminished to where I barely noticed it anymore and I have been feeling amazing. I really expected him to say that things looked great. Instead I was told that there are several new nodules on my lungs and the ones that were there before have increased in size. Now we are talking millimeters for the new ones and centimeters for the older ones. Not the news I was expecting.

For the first time since I have been diagnosed, I am angry. I feel like I have changed my life dramatically with my new diet. I am constantly doing shots of wheatgrass and green juice. I lug that juicer with me everywhere I go, thinking it will make the difference. I drive 45 minutes every week to buy 5 pounds of wheatgrass from a grower. This lifestyle is time consuming and limited. For the last month I have fallen off the raw diet thinking that what I was doing with the juicing and wheatgrass would be enough. Now, I somehow have to find the motivation to get strict again. I want to be able to go raw a %100 but I am not sure if I can do it.

Today when I was complaining to one of my friends and talking about giving up this idea of going raw. She reminded me that maybe my news would have been worse if I had not been taking care of myself the way I have been. She is right. I just keep thinking about my friend Andrea that never got any good news from any of her scans. It could be worse. It can always be worse. However, today I am going to be angry, pissed off and mad at the world. Today I ask, WHY ME? I just want my life to be normal again. Tears of frustration are running down my face as I write.

One thing I do know is that whatever I decide I won't give up without a fight. It is a built in Becker trait. I won't go down that easy. Maybe this anger is exactly what I need to get serious again. I do have one more holistic option in my back pocket. I will tell you about that later. I told Dr. Staddon what I wanted to do and he was as supportive as I could have hoped. He wants to start me on a new chemo regime pronto. However, he did say I had some time if I wanted to try something else. He, of course, had no other options except chemo, chemo and more chemo. That is still my last resort.

For now, please don't worry about me. I will win. There is no other option.

Kristine

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Fast, Faster, Fastest

Mentally preparing for my upcoming scans made me start to think about everything or anything I could do to help get positive results. On top of my extreme diet there are other ways to help my body heal itself. One of those ways would be fasting. I have yet to try a fast for a number of reasons. First of all I didn't want to lose any more weight. The other reason is that you should stay pretty mellow during your fast and I always have way too many plans. The last reason and probably the most difficult reason is the no eating any food thing. I just didn't think I would make it through even one day without eating. With all of this on my mind I knew in my heart that I had to try everything to get rid of this pesky cough and heal my body. So, I put aside three days on my calender and made no plans but to sit around and watch funny movies, read books and talk on the phone. For 72 hours I would eat nothing. I would nourish myself with green juice made from cucumber, celery, Kale, broccoli and sprouts. Of course I also had my wheat grass shots.

The day before I started I went to pick up my wheat grass from Loretta. She has been living the raw lifestyle for many years and has also attended Hippocrates several times. I told her that I was going to start a fast and I must have sounded unhappy about it because she told me that I needed to be excited about the fast and to remember the good it would do my body. She told me to celebrate the three days and to enjoy not having to worry about food. I loved that exchange and I immediately changed my attitude. I embraced the idea and I started to look forward to how I would feel.

Before I go any further I just want to quickly explain to those of you that don't understand why a fast is important. I like to explain it as a spring cleaning for the body. When your body doesn't have to digest food it is left with lots of energy to heal and to clean out unwanted cells. It also helps to clean out the bowels where people can have several pounds of sledge compacted in their bowels. (I know too much information right?) I remember years ago in San Francisco when friends of mine would do cleanses or fasts and I thought they were totally nuts. Now I can't help thinking if I would have given my body a chance to cleanse itself maybe I wouldn't be in this predicament.

So I started the fast on a Wednesday and day one went pretty smoothly. I drank lots of green juice and never really felt too hungry. I woke up day two with lots of energy and felt great. I kept thinking that I was going to feel weak so when friends called to go shopping or hang out I declined and stayed put on the couch. By day three I was amazed that I was not really hungry and I still had tons of energy. I finally agreed to go out and run around with one of my friends --I could not sit on the couch for another minute. My fast was to end at 7pm Friday night and Ryan and I had plans to eat together. (I made him eat all of his meals outside the house so I wouldn't be tempted.) By the time dinnertime arrived I had serious thoughts of continuing my fast. I wasn't really hungry at all. I definitely felt like I could have gone for another day or two. The only draw back for me was that I did lose 6 pounds. I didn't want to lose any more weight so I decided to stick with the plan and start eating again.

The fast was a great experience and I definitely think I would do another at some point. Hopefully the small break I gave my body will bring good news on Thursday. I, of course, will keep you posted.

Kristine

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Happy Birthday To Me!

Can you believe it has been a year since my surgery!? It is amazing that a year has gone by already. I am just really grateful to have another birthday. There were many times that I wondered if I would make it 38 but here I am going strong. I am now shooting for 40. Do I dare to dream of 50?

Most of you know how much I love my birthday. I call it my own personal holiday. I pretty much celebrate for the whole month of August. Going home to Michigan was part of that celebration. I have only been home a few days and now I am heading to the Jersey Shore to celebrate with my good friend Roey. We both share the same birthday of August 21st. Now I do have a couple years on her but she graciously never brings that up. Now that is a good friend.

The interesting part of my birthday is that it doesn't just mean good times anymore. My birthday now coincides with scan time. Yes, that is right it is already time for those pesky scans again. When I arrived home from Michigan I had received in the mail a confirmation of my next scan. It was supposed to be Monday the 18th. Whenever I get a scan I usually get the results two days later which would have been Wednesday the 20th. As much as I am expecting good news from these scans I wasn't willing to chance this years birthday. I guess you are probably figuring by this point that, yes I did change the scan to Wednesday 8/20 in the early morning. Right after I am heading to the shore with my friends and I am going to enjoy this weekend. I am not going to receive my results until Thursday the 28th. Last time I was not expecting good results. My cough had been non stop and I knew that it couldn't be good. This time I will be shocked if things don't look better. My cough gets better everyday. It is not gone by any means but I feel like I am winning this battle.

Last year I wanted nothing for my birthday except to wake up from open heart surgery. I actually didn't wake up until the next day. : ( This year I just want to be present and alive. I want to live in the moment, swim in the ocean, be with friends and Ryan and just plain soak it all in. I will cherish my 38th birthday and look forward to 39. Thank-you all for making this a life worth fighting for. Big Love,

Kristine

Friday, August 15, 2008

Vacation....All I Ever Wanted.

What an amazing two weeks!! I had such a good time visiting with all of my friends and family back in Michigan. As always with my life it was a whirlwind and there was never a dull moment. I will give you the run down.

Ruffus and I drove 12 hours from Philadelphia to Grand Haven, Michigan all by ourselves. I was worried about making it all of that way without anyone to drive with me. I tried to talk a few friends and family members into doing the drive with me but no takers. I made it in 12 hours flat and had the best time road tripping alone. I would do it again in a heartbeat. I think I talked to half of you during my journey so a big thank-you to all of you that kept me busy chatting for most of the drive. The cabin we rented was beautiful and so relaxing. We were only 100 yards from the beach which was amazing. The only catch was the 100 steps you had to climb down to get to the beach. Down wasn't so bad. Up was a killer. Every morning and evening I would take Ruffus to the beach where he had the time of his life. I love watching that dog run. It warms my heart. I also had the privilege of meeting two of my cousins for the first time! How did I go 37 years without knowing them? They were so much fun and I can't wait to see them again sometime soon. A week went by fast but we plan on trying to make it an annual event.

I left on Friday and headed to Saginaw. It is weird to be back in Saginaw and not really have any of my family living there anymore. I can not even begin to describe how much fun our 20 year high school reunion was. It started out on Friday night with a happy hour that went on until 4 am. After sleeping in the next day and a quick trip to the Fashion Square Mall, we got ready for the reunion. It was great to see everyone together. We have such a great group of people in our class. People say that you will be shocked at how bad people look at their 20 year reunion. Well I guess our class is an exception to the rule. Everyone looked fantastic. Most people stayed until the end and then we had a big group continue for after hours until 5 am. I have not stayed out this late or have had as much fun in a really long time. It was really nice to connect with old friends. I just hope I can do a better job of keeping in touch this time around. A big shout out to the class of "88" I think the only thing that was missing from our party was some Led Zeppelin. Gumby's Group knows what I am talking about. : )

I then went back to my sister Stephanie's house and got to spend some quality time with her and the kids. It was nice to be there with them all to myself. Usually I float into town stay three days and have a crazy schedule. Kids usually don't warm up to people when you are only there an hour. This time I got to hang out with my nieces. We went to the water park one day and Kate and I got to go down the big slide together and Sarah was sitting on my lap by the end of my stay. They are such good girls. I can't wait to see them again.

Then I got to pick Ryan up at the airport and headed up to my parents cabin. It is truly an oasis there. They have 130 acres of land with no neighbors and a large fishing pond. We finally got to just relax and play lots of cards. If you know me at all you know I love to play cards. I could play from the minute I get up until late into the night. We usually played until midnight then everyone would be exhausted and head to bed. I somehow talked my mom into staying up every night an extra hour and playing a card game called Golf. I am still undefeated. Sorry mom, maybe next time.

Then last but not least we drove back to Stephanie's house in White Lake where we hosted an appreciation party for all of my friends and family that have supported me through the last year and a half. We had the most amazing blow up slide and pool for the kids, tons of food and lots of laughs. The only bad part to that day was the weather refused to cooperate. It was raining and 65 degrees. That is ridiculous weather for Michigan in August. However, we didn't let it get us down and had so much fun just catching up with everyone. I was truly amazed at all of the people that took the time to come. Some of you even drove as far as three hours to join the party. Thank-you so much for making the effort and taking the time out of your busy lives.

I could have stayed another week in Michigan. The trip was a whirlwind, which is in true Kristine fashion. I wish I could have just stayed still for a moment or two but then my leg would have started shaking and I would have had to dream up some adventure. As most of you know I can't stay in one place too long. I got home on Monday and I am already talking about where I am going next. Stay tuned.

Kristine

Friday, July 25, 2008

Falling Through the Cracks

The medical profession is crazy. When I last visited my oncologist after my last scan they didn't like how things looked. They had me do a needle biopsy that came back with no abnormal cells. They then suggest that I either do another needle biopsy or surgery. I opted for surgery. I go and visit the surgeon and wait three and a half hours in the waiting room. I told him that he won the prize for longest wait yet. However, the craziest part of that long wait was that they couldn't pull up my scans so the surgeon couldn't really give me an opinion. I then had to run around and pick up all of my scans and deliver them to his office. That was over a week and a half ago and I had yet to hear from them. Finally today I see their number written down on a piece of paper and decide I should follow up and see what is going on. I call and I am immediately put on hold for 15 minutes until a nurse practitioner gets on the phone and informs me that the surgeon talked to my oncologist last week and they decided that I should have the surgery. Thanks for filling me in. When were they going to get around to telling me??!!

I however, have different plans at this point. I am leaving tomorrow for a two week trip to see my family in Michigan and to attend my 20 year high school reunion. I am returning mid August and I am due for my next round of scans at the end of August. I am going to stick it out and see what the next scans show. My cough is getting better all of the time and I will be interested to see if the branch like growths have increased or decreased. I am hoping for gone all together. Time will tell. It is a little bit of a game of roulette. Time is usually not your friend when we are talking cancer but I am confident that all of the things I am doing will make the difference in my good health. People ask me all of the time, "How do you feel?" Well, I feel fantastic. I have great energy and I am having the best summer. I am just starting to feel like I am getting back to myself after the heart surgery of almost a year ago. Another surgery doesn't sound so good to me. How long does it take to recuperate form lung surgery?? Hopefully not another year......

I will most likely not be writing until I return from Michigan. Consider it a vacation from blogging. I will do my best in keeping you posted when I return. Big Love,

Kristine

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Party Time...Excellent

WE ARE HAVING A PARTY!!

I am heading to Michigan to spend time with my family. My sister Stephanie has graciously offered up her home for a fun meet and greet/appreciation party for all of you who have supported me for the last year and a half. As much as I would want to make time to see each and every one of you, it is just not possible. We decided a fun family barbecue would be the perfect way to say hello to everyone without going crazy. This is definitely going to be a family party with a focus on the kids so please don't leave them home. I am excited to meet them. We are planning on having a big blow up water slide and a slip and slide. So bring the kids bathing suits. (Maybe an adult slip and slide contest would be fun, so adults bring your suits too....when is the last time you did the slip and slide??)

I do want to stress that everyone is invited. Even those of you I have never meet. Please feel free to come if you are at all interested. Some of you might not know me personally but maybe you have been the support system for one of my sisters or my parents. Don't be shy you are invited. (Yes, you the person reading this that is thinking, "I don't know, I don't even know them," or "I only met them once." Yes you too are invited). We just need to try and get an accurate head count so if you could either reply on this posting or e-mail me directly at kristine821@yahoo.com that would be helpful. See below for the details.

Just so everyone knows, Yes, Ryan will be there. He is flying in especially for the event. Finally I can stop hearing... I can't wait to meet this Ryan guy. If you don't come he might get a complex so load up those kiddies and come out for a fun afternoon.

Kristine's Appreciation Party

When: Sunday, August 10th from 3pm-7pm or whenever.

Food: We are having a barbecue of burgers and dogs (some tofu burgers and dogs as well) with some fun sides and snacks. We will have water, soda, ice tea and lemonade.

What To Bring: kids, bathing suits, any alcoholic beverages you would like to drink.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

One Last Goodbye

Andrea's memorial was yesterday and it was quite an event. I loved how it was a christian type service in an old Jewish temple. The people were from every walk of life you could imagine. The rock-a-billy suits, the interesting tattoo's, the punk and the prepsters. She had so many different kinds of friends and it was really perfect to see everyone come together to grieve for such a unique individual.

It was a rather large church and there was barely a seat to be found, even in the balcony. One of my favorite moments was when they explained that in typical Andrea style she had pretty much planned out the whole service. She had friends read scriptures and had one of her friends sing a favorite song. Of course the most moving moments were when her sons and her husband got up to speak. As Ryan said, it is hard to watch a man grieve. Kelly actually put his whole speech up on the blog if anyone is interested in what he had to say. Of course Andrea thought of everything and insisted on having the last word. She had written a letter that was read by a close friend to end the service. In true Andrea fashion her letter comforted us. She told us to wipe our tears and to know she is in a better place. It had a positive spin as only Andrea could have written. It was sad but perfect. I know her spirit was with us yesterday. You could just feel her presence. Goodbye good friend take care. Much love,

Kristine

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Anything but an angel.

As many of you know my dear friend Andrea passed away last Saturday morning. I want to thank all of you for your e-mails and phone calls. It is hard to lose someone you care about but I am strangely at peace with the situation. I think having lunch with her the Tuesday before and hearing her talk about how much pain she was in and that she was really ready to die. She was slurring her words from the pain meds and asking for more before lunch was over. I do know the one thing Andrea hated was to not be in the moment and alert. She did everything in her power to deal with the pain instead of being "out of it." I guess I know that in my heart she is in a better place and pain free.

I know Andrea would have loved the title to this blog because she was just that, anything but an angel. She is probably reeking havoc in heaven right now. I can hear her louder then life laugh while she tells everyone just how it is going to be now that she has arrived! Her memorial is on Monday and I hope we celebrate the women she was instead of mourn the loss of her in our lives. Big love to you all,

Kristine

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Saying Goodbye

It has been over a week since I have posted anything. I have a couple of idea's of things that I wanted to write about. Such as my new hair do with a new picture. A barbecue we are going to have when I am in Michigan for all of my friends and family who have supported me during this crazy year and a half. However, I just can't find it in me to write about any of it. Lately I have been consumed by my friend Andrea and her pending death. Nothing else seems important enough. I check her blog probably 6 times a day, just waiting for the news we all know is coming. It is hard for me to be a spectator to her death. We were on the same chemo schedule, had our surgeries only 2 weeks apart and yet here I am watching her die. It doesn't seem fair. For a long time I didn't want to except that she wasn't going to make it. I even bought her all of these natural remedies that say they can work on even the worst of patients. To be honest I didn't want to let her go.

I woke up this morning and read her blog and she is prepared and even welcoming the idea of death. She is tired most of the time and in pain all of the time. She has had enough. I then called her to see if she needed any rides today and we talked for just a minute. While talking to her I realized that I too am going to have to embrace her death. I tried to keep from crying on the phone. She is so together....why can't I be. I can barely write because the tears just keep coming. I will see her for lunch today. She wants to have lobster before she dies. I will keep it together for her and remember that she embraced life the same way she will embrace death. She will not shy away from the unknown, but run to it. She has a magnificent spirit that will be missed so much. Andrea, I love you.

Kristine

In case you don't have it her blog is www.punkrockmommy.org Send her good vibes.

Monday, June 23, 2008

A DIfferent Point of Veiw

Ryan was going to write this blog because as you all know, he is much better with the details then I tend to be. However, he is extremely busy with work so I thought I would just do my best.

Last Thursday Ryan and I had a conference call with Brian Clement from Hippocrates. It was extremely interesting. I had sent him my scans before the call so he could take a look at what was going on. He also had the information from my last scan and all of my latest blood tests. He started by saying that he has seen scans like mine many of times.....I think his exact words were thousands of times. His take on the situation is that yes there are probably cancer cells in my lung but what we are seeing with the branching is not a tumor. He thinks that what is happening is that my immune system is doing it's job. He explained that it takes over 5 billion cells to show up on a scan and what we are seeing is that my immune system is coming together to fight whatever maybe in my lung. It explains why I had only healthy cells found in my eight needle biopsies. He also explained that when my good cells are fighting my bad cells it causes heat in the body. Because my body is a perfect machine it sends water to cool down the location which in turn is causing my cough. He also said that my blood work looked fantastic and in his opinion I should stay the course with my diet and wheat grass.

I do have to fess up at this point that I was a bit of slacker on my diet. Not the eating part. I actually think I do a pretty good job of staying raw. I definitely have my weak moments and eating out is extremely hard. I am the first to say that I am not perfect. However, I am really proud of the 90% change I have made instead of the 10% mistakes. Where I have been lacking is the wheat grass portion which is just as important as the diet. I have been taking wheat grass pills for the last 3 months and doing fresh only when it was convenient. It just made things so much easier while I was traveling visiting family and friends. When I asked Brian about the pills he informed me that they are 1% effective. Then I asked him about the frozen wheat grass I have seen in stores and he replied 3% effective. So now I have been back to the basics and juicing fresh for the past 10 days. I am happy to report that my cough is improving everyday.

We also talked about surgery. Brian's take on surgery is that if I decided to go forward they will most likely find cancer cells. Will they get all 5 billion....unlikely. Basically I will be in the same situation as before with my immune system trying to fight off the bad cells. Only this time I will be weak from surgery and getting back on my feet and feeling good can take a while. Of course if they find cancer cells they will want me to go on chemo immediately and I think I have made myself clear how I feel about that. I do intend to meet with the surgeon to hear what he has to say but at this point I think I am going to watch things closely and see what the next scan shows at the end of August. Until then I am in lock down mode. I am trying to stay home and focus on getting healthy.

I know it is hard for a lot of people to understand that I would be willing to go against conventional medicine. I won't lie and say it isn't scary but I truly believe that what I am doing now is the path to a long healthy life. Actually I plan on out living each and everyone of you. HA! HA!

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Good News/Bad News

As the saying goes...I have good news and bad news. Which do you want first? I always choose the good news first. I always think that maybe that will make me feel better about the bad news.

Good News

I got the call from Dr. Staddon that after eight needle biopsy's they could not find any abnormal cells. At this point I should be jumping around and celebrating! However, I know better then to get ahead of myself. If any of you ever read the postings, there is a posting on my last entry from another Sarcoma survivor and she had a similar experience. By the way who ever you are my sarcoma sister, I would love to be able to contact you in some way. It sounds like you have lots of experience and may be able to shed some light on everything I am going through. My direct e-mail is on the main page.


Bad News

So following this amazing news, Dr. Staddon continues with two options. First option is to do another needle biopsy. Second option is to do surgery. I jumped at the chance of surgery! I know that sounds odd that I would be excited to do surgery but that really is my best option. When you are trying to fight something with your own immune system the less cells there are to kill the better. Surgery would get rid of the most cells in the shortest amount of time. Dr. Staddon prefers to do another needle biopsy because in his mind the things they are seeing on the scans are definitely cancer and they would want to start a chemo regimen ASAP. They look at it as the less they have to cut out the better. Also while the chemo was shrinking the spots on my lungs it would also be killing any other cells that might be gaining any momentum to grow in any other places. I am not interested in having a needle stuck into me eight more times, until they get the results they want. Also, I have not leveled with him that I am not going to jump back into chemo. He is not going to like that answer so I am prolonging the conversation until it is necessary. Dr. Staddon is on vacation this week but he made a call to one of his surgeon friends to try and get me in right away. I guess it usually takes two months to get into see this particular surgeon. I have yet to hear anything but will keep you posted.

I also have a phone interview with Brian Clement on Thursday afternoon. He if the founder of Hippocrates. I sent him my scans and blood tests because I wanted to get a holistic view of my situation. At that point I will make my own decision on the best path to follow.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Too Busy For Cancer

Sorry we didn't write yesterday afternoon. The day just got away from us. I am just going to try and give a quick update of yesterdays events.

I arrived around 8am and they started my biopsy around 9:30am. It is a very complicated biopsy because what they see on the scan is very small. They actually do the biopsy in the cat scan. So basically they would put in the needle and then scan to make sure it was in the right place and then try and take a sample. The doctor described it as trying to put a toothpick in a grape. It is very hard to hit it just perfectly. They ended up using eight separate needles to try and get a sample. There was actually a tech in the room with us that was checking each sample for abnormal cells. I guess everything they were getting was coming back normal so they just kept trying. Needless to say being prodded eight times in the lung did cause some partial collapsing. They kept me in the hospital and took an x-ray once an hour. They were really on the fence of admitting me for the night and putting a tube through my chest into my lung.

During this long wait, I of course struck up a conversation with the patients around me. I was surrounded by cancer survivors. We talked for over 2 hours while we waited for our turns. Then out of the blue my friend Andrea showed up! She had to have her port accessed so she could have her cat scan with dye. We of course laughed that once again our paths would cross in the hospital. The nurse that was in charge said she had worked there for five years and has never seen patients having full on conversations like we were. I thought that was funny. At one point we were all laughing and she had to tell us to keep it down to hear the person she was talking to on the phone.

Finally at 3:00 in the afternoon they released me. I guess my x-ray showed a small improvement. Thank god because I had two parties to go to that night and I didn't want to miss them. I did make both but I was completely exhausted by 10pm and slept eleven hours. I feel much better today and I am looking forward to the weekend. Sorry if this post has tons of errors but I am running out to meet a friend and I am short on time. Life goes on.......

Monday, June 9, 2008

Keeping up with Kristine

I know everyone out there is routing for me and probably pretty worried at this point. I just wanted to keep you all updated on what is going on in my crazy life. First of all the biopsy has been scheduled for Thursday morning so I most likely will not get any results until the following week. To be honest I am more concerned with the biopsy then the results! I had a needle put into my lung after my heart surgery to remove excess fluid. IT HURT LIKE HELL!! This is coming from a women that just had open heart surgery, so you know I am not messing around. One of the side effects of this biopsy is that my lung could collapse. My oncologist said, "but don't worry because a collapsed lung is really no big deal." I am sorry, I find this to be a big deal. Let's not forget if this happens I will be admitted to the hospital. YUCK! Anyway, does it sound like I am complaining?? I am more annoyed then anything, but I guess this is a life of a cancer patient. The problem was that I had the luxury of forgetting that I was a cancer patient for awhile and now it is hospitals and biopsies all over again.

The reason that the results don't scare me as much is because I have pretty much already decided that I will not be starting a new chemo regimen. As you have read in my past postings there are holistic options available. I plan on exploring every last one of them. I will keep you posted on my decisions. I am not saying that I will never do chemo again but I am saying it is a last resort for me. I truly believe in my heart that there are better ways of fighting cancer. I have always been one to march to the beat of my own drum and this time I will not just be following doctors orders.

I have been cleaning up my act since my last scan and have gone back on my raw diet 110%. I am very proud of the changes I have made to help beat this disease. While I was still vegetarian, I was doing more of a 80% raw and 20% cooked. I also saw a healer last night. He doesn't heal cancer but he can find things out of tune in your body. He told me that I have a fungal infection in my heart chakra. (I know this sounds totally hippie, but stay with me here.)
I just had to write about it because if it comes up as a fungal infection I wanted you guys to have seen this in writing first. It is funny because I have never in my life thought I would be hoping for a fungal infection!

It seems like my cough is getting better everyday. I close my eyes about three times a day and tell all of my white blood cells to go kick the crap out of what ever is in my lungs. Maybe it is actually working. Mind over matter....Right?? Anyway, I am doing great and I am very positive and want to thank everyone for sticking this crazy thing out with me. Until Thursday. Have a great week.

Kristine

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Reality Check

Kristine had her follow up appointment with Dr. Staddon this afternoon to review her latest CT scans and MRI. I accompanied her for support and to hear what the oncologist had to say about her results.

It's difficult to describe our moods going into the appointment -- each of us probably carrying a very different set of complex and mixed emotions. The underlying mood was palpable though, especially since we avoided anything but surface level conversation about the upcoming visit.

Psychologically I've been able to escape a bit, relegating cancer to a one-time event in our distant past. Even as reminders have emerged in the last month or so that the past may not be so distant -- a constant dry cough, light-headedness when Kristine stands up and an acute discomfort in her right shoulder -- I remain optimistic and rationalize these symptoms away as part of the healing process. But this couldn't be further from Kristine's reality. She lives constantly with these symptoms as nagging reminders that any one of her scan appointments could reveal a recurrence. Nonetheless, she still has an amazing and unyielding optimism about whatever news she may receive.

In the office, the nurses stopped to say hello and compliment Kristine on how great she looks -- her spirit positive and her skin noticeably glowing from her raw vegan diet. We sat in near silence waiting for the doctor, both of us introspective about what news we might learn. Once in the examination room, Dr. Staddon took some time to talk about the scan results. He typed information into the office computer as he asked the usual exploratory questions. After some small talk he began discussing the results with us.

The scans show two branching mass-like soft tissue densities in Kristine's right lower lung. Dr. Staddon said that the presentation of these "nodules," as he called them, are very unusual. Tumors normally form initially as isolated masses rather than as branching structures as were seen in Kristine's scans. The nodules were seen in her scans a few months ago but were much smaller. They are still only about 2 cm in length (a little under an inch) and are likely causing Kristine's dry cough. Dr. Staddon expressed his concern but said that in order to be certain that the tissue was malignant and related to the previous cancer a biopsy will be necessary. He was also quick to mention chemotherapy options, which apparently would be different from prior treatments since new drugs have recently shown to be effective and less intensive. Both Kristine and I cringed at the very mention of additional chemo.

Kristine is scheduled for a needle biopsy early next week, after which we will meet with the oncologist to discuss the results and next steps. Kristine is doing well and continues to be optimistic. Part of her has been almost expecting to get this news since the end of her last radiation treatment, but of course there is always a hope that she is wrong.

We will keep you posted next week.

Ryan

Hi everybody, It's Kristine! I felt like I had to add a little something. Please don't worry and get all upset. I am taking this one step at a time and I am not concerned at all. I am living in the moment and in this moment there is no definite answer. So tomorrow I will be enjoying my life at the pool for the day. There, now you are all a bit jealous of me. Love ya,

Kristine

Sunday, June 1, 2008

Round Three

I had my third set of scans since my surgery on last Thursday. They are becoming more of a chore then a big deal. I pretty much know the drill at this point. I know all of the tricks and how to get in and out in the most efficient way. I pretty much know all of the technicians and stop to chat with each of them like it is a social event. One of them is named Kristine so we have a bit of a bond. Everyone keeps asking me how I feel and I respond with, "I feel great!" The reality is that I do feel great but that feeling is very deceiving being I felt great and actually went skiing the day before I was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. So feeling great is not enough to give me confidence that these scans will come up completely clean. I am usually really positive and only expect good news but this time I have to say I am nervous. I get my results on Thursday late afternoon so I will be sure to let everyone know as soon as I can.

I have a lot going on this summer and I don't really have time for cancer. Cancer stole my summer last year and I am determined to enjoy this one come hell or high water! Send me good vibes on Thursday. Until then,

Kristine

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Because I Can!

Just a quick update from my last post. I was so sad to be leaving Florida because I was having such a great time. I got up early Tuesday morning packed my bags and my sister dropped me at the airport. I stood in a very long line to check in and when it was my turn to go to the counter, I just couldn't do it. I got out of line, called the airline, changed my flight to that following Friday and jumped on a shuttle back to Miami. It all took about two hours and I was back on the beach. As the saying goes, life is short. That day I really lived it like it was short and took advantage of having to be no where. Does that ever happen? We always need to get back for something. Work, kids, appointments that can't be broken. I had nothing to rush home for and I took full advantage!

I wanted to share an e-mail from one of the women I met at Hippocrates. She is the one that had that baseball size tumor on her neck. The Hippocrates program was working for her and she was on track to beat her cancer and then I received the following e-mail. I just thought it was so interesting and wanted to share it with all of you.



To the wonderful people in my life,

I usually do not enjoy the impersonal mass mailing but I believe this occasion calls for it. As you know I am healing from cancer through my Hippocrates Lifestyle which should take approximately 2 years. I am doing well and on schedule and I feel blessed to have learned all that I have.

21/2 weeks ago I had a massage with a wonderful Ecuadorian woman, Elena who is also a healer. I met her last November. She is getting ready to retire so she works here a couple months then goes back home to Guayaquil, Ecuador for a couple of months where she is fixing up their new home. Her mother lives there and her husband, Paul who is Italian and sold his deli business in Boca last year is there as well. During my last massage she asked how I was doing and I told her well but I was thinking of going to John of God in Brazil. Elena said before you do that would you consider a doctor in my home town who cured my friend of ovarian cancer in 3 weeks with diet and poultices. She said she personally witnessed this and knows 2 other people there who did it as well. Of course I said I was interested as I love adventures and believe there are many ways for the body to heal although it's really up to God.

This doctor is South African and a research scientist who worked for a large pharmaceutical company here in the US. He made some discoveries that the government did not like and they confiscated and destroyed his work. He kept working anyway and was jailed. Our government released him under the condition he never return to the US. He then settled in Ecuador with it's proximity to the rainforest. This doctor uses raw diet, juices and poultices to pull the cancer out. He told me it's painful but they have very powerful natural pain medicine there without the side effects of the narcotics we have. I then went back to Hippocrates and asked the director and founder of the program if he knew of this doctor and his work. Without a moments hesitation he said yes I know of him and if you want to do that it will certainly work.

I spoke to the doctor again and he said he would help me but it would take probably 5 or 6 weeks as they have to get cancer out of my tongue so they have to go very slowly to avoid swelling. He also works with a group of associates and they have top notch hospital and medical support. I will be closely monitored and have frequent blood work along with an IV for the pain med. He said I will be resting, drinking and peeing to quote him exactly. I prefer to be cancer free as soon as possible and I love learning new things and seeing new places.

This entire trip has just fallen into place more easily than anything I have done before. Elena offered me her new house to stay in, her husband Paul will pick us up at the airport and see to all our needs. The doctor said he would come to the house if I wanted and is lending me his juicing equipment. (He is a minister and has 8 children.) Best of all I never have to be alone as my good friend, Diane Zantop is leaving with me on Monday the 12th to take care of me, then Rick is coming on the 22nd and Diane will go back on the 23rd. Rick is staying until the 3rd of June and Elena will be back May 30 and told me it would be an honor to take care of me until I go home. Elena said that God gave me this so I could go out to the world and help others which is what I know.



I will keep you all posted on her progress and how her visit to Ecuador turns out. I really believe in my heart that natural healing is leaps and bounds better then the chemicals we are filling our bodies with to fight cancer.

Kristine

Monday, May 19, 2008

Who Has Cancer?

Last night I stayed awake late and reread my blog from beginning to end. It is crazy to me to read about my life. It doesn't seem like it is possible that it was really me suffering through a very real disease. I read all of the entries and found myself crying while I remembered all that my friends and family have been through in the last year. It just doesn't seem like that is really my life. I am still stunned that I got cancer.

I find that I am really lucky that I can just live in the moment. I forget on a regular basis that I have cancer at all. Even though there are many things always reminding me. Such as my diet, the 23 centimeter scar running down the middle of my chest or a dry cough that just won't go away. I am extremely good at putting it all out of mind and just enjoying every minute as it comes.

It has been three months since my last scan and it is time for a new one. I have been saying that I wasn't going to have the scan done because I really don't think that I would subject myself to chemo ever again. However, I always follow that up with a never say never. Now the time has come and I am leaning towards doing the scan. Like I mentioned earlier, I have had an on going dry cough for over two weeks. It doesn't seem to be getting any better. Now it comes down to piece of mind. Even if my scan comes out badly I just have to know.

I am in Florida right now. I came here to celebrate one of my good friends 50Th birthday. I am supposed to leave tomorrow and I really just don't want to go home. I always want to go home. I miss Ryan and Ruffus and sleeping in my own bed. Even with all of that waiting my reality is there as well and scans are scheduled and doctors appointments loom. Maybe if I just stay a few more days down here in denial it will all go away.

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Intuition

First of all, thank-you all so much for all of the great comments. We are so excited that people are interested in getting healthy. A while back I wrote a blog about how I am not the raw food poster child and I came off a bit angry. My friends and family keep saying, "I know you don't like to talk about it." In reality I am happy to talk about my diet. I am just not willing to defend it to people who are not interested or who want to hide behind all of the untruths that keep them driving through McDonald's. The problem I run into is that so many of you have great questions and I am such a newbie at all of this that sometimes I don't have the answer and all I can do at that point is to ask myself what feels right. I usually tell you that I don't know which is honest. However, I usually think about these questions later and really trust my intuition. Which is what I am going to ask you to do today.

I was talking to my sister Stephanie on the phone the other day and she tells me that grocery shopping has become very hard for her. She is now paying attention to labels and trying to buy healthier food for her kids. She then made a comment that I talk a lot about what not to eat but not so much about what to eat. She then asked me for suggestions. I loved this insight because it is so true. The only problem is that there is no easy answer to that one. My friends with children live in 2008 and are busy juggling so much in their lives and they are looking for convenience. I am going to give a couple suggestions (bottom of page) but what it really comes down to is that when you leave the grocery store your cart should be filled with mostly fresh fruits and vegetables. The dinner in a box may be convenient but it is filled with chemicals and fats that will not help your immune system stay strong. It actually reeks havoc on your body but that is another blog in it's self.

I find it funny how many of my friends tell me that their children are picky eaters. Recently I was babysitting and was left with the "ONLY" snacks their child would eat. It consisted of goldfish, peanut butter crackers, and pretzels. All of these are of course not on my diet so I cut up some red pepper and was eating that as a snack. Well low and behold the child wanted the red pepper! I think kids want what you have. They learn by example. If you change your eating habits it is only a matter of time until your kids will follow. It is not going to happen over night but I wouldn't be surprised if it only took a week or two.

I also spent last weekend with Ryan's family. While I was at their home I was making my daily juice of cucumber and celery. I made enough so everyone could try some. I get lots of different comments from people. Some people love it right off the bat, others need some apple juice or something to sweeten it up a bit. However, to my surprise the person that liked it the most was Ryan's 18 month old nephew. We all know that he wasn't drinking it to appease me!

The other subject that my sister and I talked about was all of the conflicting information out there. She reads in my blog about the dangers of dairy and milk and then goes to her pediatrician and his first question is, "Are they drinking their milk?" I know it is hard to live outside the box but you owe it to yourselves and your families to become more educated. Doctors do not know everything!!! They are not god. Remember the books that I am reading are all written by doctors that have realized through research that everything they had learned up to that point had been wrong. At some point it is up to us to trust our inner voices. Up until Feb. last year I had little or no experience with doctors and now I can tell you first hand that they don't know everything. Actually most of it is guess work and they guessed incorrectly for me multiple times. I am not angry that they couldn't give me answers but I am now looking for my own and I am not as trusting as I used to be. Just remember to trust your intuition the next time you see your doctor.

Healthy Snacks

Keep veggies cut up and ready to grab. Such as red bell pepper, cucumber, celery and carrots.
Did you know that red peppers have more vitamin C then an orange. Also, green peppers are unripened red peppers. You never want to eat a fruit or vegetable that is not ripe. Stay away from those green ones! The orange and yellow peppers are good too.

Instead of dips use hummus. A much healthier option and tasty too!

Of course any fresh fruit is always nice but don't over do it on the fruit. They are packed full of sugars! Especially bananas, who knew?

When buying chips. Look for baked not fried chips. They are hard to find but much healthier. Also, look at the ingredients on those bags. For example, Lays baked chips are not healthier. Look at the additives on the label. I find blue chips are pretty good. Also, I have seen more veggie chips out there. If you have a whole foods you might even find a brand called Guiltless Chips. They are hard to spot usually in the bottom in the corner.

One of my friends makes pasta for her kids and in her blender she will mince up raw zucchini and squash and put it in the sauce. The kids will never know, and neither will you! There is also a healthier version of pasta. It is called spelt pasta. It is a brown color. You usually can find it with all of the packaged noodles. It tastes the same but it is just not as appealing to look at.

Instead of regular bread look for sprouted bread in your freezer section. When bread is sprouted it has many more nutrients. You will find all sorts of things sprouted such as bagels in different flavors and even tortillas

Try almond butter instead of peanut butter. Peanuts and cashews have a lot of bacteria so try and stay away from them as much as possible. Not to mention all of the partially hydrogenated soy products in brands like Jif. The almond butter is a much more mild version of peanut butter. I wonder if kids would notice the difference.

Make smoothies! Kids love them and they are very filling. You can even buy frozen organic fruit so it doesn't go bad. Get them involved. They love to eat things that they have made.

See if your kids will eat avocados or guacamole.

Look for vegan cookies. They are made with no dairy and no eggs. You will be shocked at how they taste just like the real thing.

Once in a while I just need a pizza but I have been ordering a veggie on whole wheat crust with no cheese. I am amazed that I don't miss the cheese at all. Also Amy's organics which can be found in almost every grocery store does a cheesless pizza that is pretty darn good.

Good luck and if anyone has any other ideas that they want to share, be sure to post them. I can use all the help I can get!

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Queen of Moderation

Hi Everyone!!

It has been awhile since I have posted anything on the blog. I have to be honest and say that we were not getting a lot of comments and I felt like maybe people had just stopped reading. I guess this blog works both ways. When you guys come and check everyday to see if we have written anything and see nothing, then you start to check every other day and then once a week....it is the same for us. After we write a blog we go on and check for comments to see if anyone has anything to say or add. It motivates us when we see that people are still out there. So a few days ago Ryan updated the blog and we can now see how often people visit the site and where they live. Very cool! It was amazing to see all of the support out there. Over 50 people check this blog everyday. Thank-you all for staying with us. We will try and stay on top of our site a little more now that we know you are all still out there. Some of you tell me that your comments feel silly saying the same things over and over, but we don't care we love them!! Keep them coming.

Another reason I have not been writing is that I am in the middle of three books right now. They all have to do with our environment, nutrition and diet. I am tyring to become as informed as possible so I can help myself stay motivated with my very strict diet regimen. I have so much I want to share with you but I really feel like I need to digest it all before I just start throwing information out at you. For instance, I have a lot more to say about the dairy subject but I have not pulled all my thoughts together. So I plan on returning to that topic at a later
date. So for now I am just going to write about anything that appeals to me and The Queen of Moderation is something I have been wanting to write about for a long time.

Everything in moderation. That has been my motto my whole life. Whenever people would talk about health and nutrition I would respond with the everything in moderation quote. I remember when I used to say that I thought the reason people got cancer or life threatening diseases was because they drank 10 cups of coffee a day, or drank tons of diet drinks with artificial sweeteners, or just plain didn't take care of themselves. It was never going to happen to me because I did EVERYTHING in moderation!! I didn't smoke, drank only socially, soda's were a rarity, I was never sick, exercised regularly, ate salads for lunch (O.K. they were smothered with Blue Cheese dressing.) and just didn't do anything excessively. I thought this was the secret to a long healthy life. I never thought I would get cancer. Actually I could have picked out a few people in my life that I thought were at risk. So saying I was shocked when I was diagnosed is an understatement.

Now that I have been living in the world of cancer for over a year. I have met a ton of people just like me. Moderation was their middle name as well. I guess I am telling you this because it has now become one of those sayings that rub me the wrong way. You can not hide behind moderation. I am living proof that it doesn't work. You need to take care of your body and pay attention to the things you put in it. Please don't just read the things we write and then go back to your old way of doing things without thinking of the consequences. However, if you do, I understand. I look back over my life and remember the warnings about the slippery slope I was on and paid no attention. I thought those warnings were for other people.

The only thing that really bothers me is children. Most of you are adults and make your own decisions but the few of you who are making decisions for children really need to pay attention. My friends and family would do anything for their children. They bend over backwards to make sure their children are happy. They get them the best everything. Any of you that have children know how much time you spent looking for good schools. Take half of that time and look at what you are feeding them. There is a reason that cancer has jumped from 3%-20% in the last hundred years just in children. It isn't their pack a day smoking habit! I hear every excuse from my mom friends. I know how difficult it can be to feed a child something they don't want. I was the pickiest eater alive. I am sure my Mother can back me up on this one. Now I wonder if the lack of nutrition in my early years had something to do with my weak immune system.

I no longer call myself the Queen of Moderation. My life has become a bit excessive, in a good way. Eating a raw vegan diet isn't easy. I fall off the wagon sometimes just like any of you would on any kind of diet. However, everyday it gets easier and I have fewer and fewer cravings. I can taste the difference when a vegetable is organic. I am thinking that maybe my new motto will be the Goddess of Excess. Sounds good!

Monday, April 14, 2008

The China Study

Kristine and I have made a lifestyle choice – eating a raw vegan diet. We are not employing a short term diet remedy but rather embracing a philosophy to take control of our health. We have not made this decision overnight or on a whim. Instead it’s the result of over a year’s worth of hardship and our ongoing motivation to learn more about all sides of the health debate.

I’ll be the first to admit my own skepticism. No matter how much I read on health and nutrition there are still a lot of gaps in the argument for this lifestyle leaving me with plenty of uncertainty. However, a good majority of what I continue to uncover supports our decision, or at least most of it. I am 95% convinced that moving to an organic vegan diet – that is, one comprised entirely of whole, plant-based foods and no diary products – is beneficial if not critical to our lifelong health. However, I am not as convinced (only about 50%) that one need go raw in order to get all the benefits. None-the-less I intend to do my best to support Kristine in this choice.

I have put this special blog entry together to summarize some of what I have learned that has driven me to go from meat lover to reluctant vegan. Like many of you I too was a defender of my own addiction to delicious salty pork, caffeinated beverages and processed foods (among other things) not too long ago. And please don’t think that Kristine and I are now evangelical ministers of veganism pushing our lifestyle onto others at every opportunity. We share our experiences and beliefs when and if people ask (and, of course, via the blog) but we certainly have no hidden motives to turn everyone we meet into a vegan. In fact, we’re not even that good at it ourselves so we would be huge hypocrites if we did. But we do hope to peak your curiosity to learn more for yourself and maybe even share something back with us.

One of the pivotal points for me was reading a book called The China Study. I read it after our Hippocrates experience. It really helped me to put more fact around the stuff they taught at the institute as I was still quite skeptical when I left. The book was written and published in 2006 by a Cornell research professor who spent his entire career studying the health effects of diet and nutrition. He is a recognized leader in pushing independent, evidence based policy through major government bodies. He provides evidence from a vast number of studies that support a whole food, plant based diet for good health. He also discusses the corruption that continues to stand in the way of people’s access to the truth about nutrition and health.

THE STATISTICS
The U.S. spends twice as much on health care as any other industrialized nation in the world ($6,100/person/year). Yet, according to the World Health Organization (WHO) we are ranked 46th in life expectancy and 42nd in infant mortality. The infant mortality rate in the U.S. is twice that of Japan’s and most other industrialized nations. In the last 100 years, mortality rates from cancer have risen from 3% of all deaths to over 20%; incidences of diabetes have gone from 0.1% of the population to 20%; and heart disease now kills over 700,000 people per year when a century ago it was almost non existent. Breast cancer incidence rates in the 1960s were about 1 in 20 women. In 2005 the rate was 1 in 3 women. Since the 1950’s incidences of colon cancer in males has increased 60%, testicular cancer 100%, adult brain cancer 80% and childhood cancers 20%. About 15% of U.S. children are obese with another 15% severely overweight. Obesity among all individuals doubled in just the last 25 years from 15% to 30%.


WHAT IS CAUSING THESE PATTERNS?

Of course, no one can nor probably ever will be able answer this question definitively. It is far too complex to draw causal links between any one thing and a specific disease. In fact most agree that it’s not one thing but a host of different factors acting together that are to blame. However, it’s also not likely a coincidence that we have seen such a rapid growth in the incidence of serious disease, especially in the last 50-60 years. In this time period synthetic chemicals have been developed and introduced for market consumption, processed foods and fast food have become a main staple in our western diet, and more recently genetically modified foods have been approved for use.

All of this has happened with little or no testing of the long term effects of any of these products on our health. In the 1940s about 1 billion new synthetic chemicals were introduced, in the ‘80s that number had grown to 500 billion. The fact is that we can’t keep up. To illustrate this, if just the most common 1000 chemicals were tested for compatibility in unique combinations of three, it would take 166 million different experiments to cover all possibilities. Of course, the actual problem is enormously larger given the number of chemicals we produce. Not to mention, this still only looks at initial chemical reactions, the long term effects of these combinations would be an impossible task to explore.

To compound the problem we have substituted refined and processed foods for whole foods, the kind that humans have been living on and have adapted to for thousands of years. Additionally, studies continue to show a link between the risk of many diseases and the consumption of animal products including dairy.


HOW IS A PLANT BASED DIET SUPPOSED TO HELP?

In The China Study the author goes into detail about the available research on diet and its link to disease. He makes a compelling argument that animal products (including dairy), while maybe not the cause of disease do act as a catalyst for many diseases to manifest. I have given a sample of some of these research findings below, but I encourage you to read the book if you’re at all interested as it will completely alter your perspective on how you view food.

  • Perhaps one of the most fascinating studies cited is some of the authors own research work. His team was able to “turn on and off” tumor activity by increasing or decreasing the amount of animal protein that was administered to lab rats (his experiments have been subsequently reproduced). Lab rates were exposed to a toxic chemical known to cause cancer. Studies found that rats given levels of animal protein below 5% saw no incidence of tumor growth despite exposure to a highly carcinogenic substance. Of the rats feed 20% animal protein, however, 100% saw tumor growth. What was even more impressive was that when tumor cells had begun to take form and protein levels were reduced, tumor growth was also reduced. Effectively the team could turn the tumors on and off by changing the levels of protein given. This effect was not, however, true for plant proteins where tumor activity remained low no matter what level was given.
  • A 2001 Harvard Review reported that 12 or 14 separate studies observed a positive association between dairy products and prostate cancer. Men with the highest intakes of dairy had approximation double the risk of prostate cancer as those with lower intakes and up to four times the likelihood of fatal prostate cancer.
  • In studies out of the University of Oregon Medical School researchers found that they could reduce the progression of MS (Multiple Sclerosis) even in advanced cases by lowering saturated fat levels in patients’ diets (effectively reducing considerably the amount of meat and dairy they ate). In the study only 5% died within 3 years vs. 80% of those who ate higher saturated fat levels. Patents also had fewer symptoms under the diet.
  • A report out of Yale University School of Medicine summarized 34 independent studies in 16 countries on the link between bone fractures and dairy intake. They found that over 70% of fracture rates were attributed to higher levels of dairy in ones diet. This is a staggering conclusion since it is commonly accepted in the medical community that fracture rates are an indicator of low bone density and osteoporosis. The researchers’ explanation for this was that animal protein, especially from milk, increases the body’s acidity level. Since our body prefers a pH neutral state it calls on chemicals to neutralize the acidity. The major player in neutralizing the acidity is calcium that is pulled from the bones. So just to be clear, this summary of several worldwide studies provides strong evidence that the milk that the dairy industry advertises as helping to build strong bones and doing the body good is actually weakening our bones and depleting our body of needed calcium. (By the way vegetables are a great source of calcium.)
  • There is an incredible relationship between disease rates and protein intake when compared across other countries. For example, breast cancer rates are over 5 times higher in the U.S., Canada and the U.K. compared to Thailand, Japan and the Philippines all of which have a much lower consumption of animal fats and proteins. This strong correlation between consuming meat and dairy and diseases like cancer, heart disease, and diabetes holds true in every case along a diagonal in a scatter plot diagram. What’s even more amazing is that it’s not in most cases (as is commonly argued) genetic. When researchers look at immigrant populations they find that people assume the same disease rates as the people where they have moved – Japanese in the U.S. take on the same high disease rates as native born Americans.
  • In studies of Type 1 diabetics, individuals placed on a plant based, non dairy diet were able to lower their insulin medication by 40%. Additionally, a New England Journal of Medicine reported in 1992 that the introduction of cow’s milk to infants too soon after birth shows a strong link as a possible cause of Type 1 diabetes. Other studies have shown a similar link between cow’s milk and autoimmune disease (rheumatoid arthritis, MS, Lupus, etc.) The theory is that our bodies don’t have the ability to break down cow’s milk fully. The chemical product of digestion introduces many foreign proteins into our bloodstream that have an identical composition to our own body’s proteins. Our immune system attacks these foreign proteins but in some cases also attacks our own body in the form of joints (rheumatoid arthritis), the nervous system (MS) or the pancreas (Type 1 diabetes).
  • Pediatrics Journal reported in 1997 that puberty in U.S. girls was occurring alarmingly earlier and concluded that this was linked to diet. They found that puberty was occurring at age 8 for 1 in 7 white girls and 1 in 2 African American girls. More startling was that 1 in 100 white girls and 3 in 100 African American girls began to show signs of puberty at age 3. This is worrisome because it has been shown that there is a link between increased exposure to female hormones (estrogen) and breast cancer. Women are beginning menstruation earlier and experiencing menopause later, which is increasing there natural exposure to estrogen. The China Study reveals that Rural Chinese girls menstruate 5 years later than the average U.S. girl. However, those Chinese girls who did begin menstruating earlier had a higher likelihood of getting breast cancer.

Again these are just a few of the startling findings from The China Study that support a plant-based diet.


WHY IS THIS INFORMATION NOT MORE READILY AVAILABLE?

We have heard a lot of political rhetoric in this past campaign year about the influence of deep pocket corporate lobbyists on government policies, especially related to pharmaceuticals and health care. But the problem runs much deeper and is much more complex than just Congressional lobbying. Food and drug corporations not only spend millions of dollars on lobbying government to influence public policy ($91 million annually just from pharmaceuticals) but they also establish complex networks of individuals on influential associations and groups as well as huge PR and advertising campaigns to support their products. Millions of dollars are spent to disseminate corporate sponsored studies that support the claims they want us to hear and advertising is used to reinforce myths about food. In fact, most of the nutrition education literature that public schools disseminate to children is supplied by the food industry: Dannon Institute, the Egg Nutritional Board, National Cattlemen’s Beef Association, National Dairy Council, etc. All groups that have an economic interest in maintaining the idea that animal products are healthy and important to good nutrition.

This is not some kind of conspiracy. It is much more overt than that. It is the way that business is done in every industry. It just so happens that the industries that have the most to hide seem to do the most to maintain their product's reputation. These are very similar tactics to those used by big tobacco companies. I know what you’re thinking drugs and food are not as bad as tobacco. But how do you know? For example, we all take our doctors word for it when he/she prescribes us a drug to solve our ailments. Yet the Government Accountability Office (GAO) the investigative arm of Congress recently reported that over 50% of drugs approved by the FDA between 1975 and 1985 turned out to demonstrate serious health risks. The fact is that drugs, processed and genetically engineered foods, and chemical compounds are not tested adequately prior to being put into the market. As a result, medical care is now the third leading cause of death in the U.S. according to the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA). You read correctly, medical care including adverse drug effect and medication errors kills more people than any other disease except cancer and heart disease.

With all this misinformation it’s no wonder we are so confused about what we should eat.

Monday, April 7, 2008

Scary Dairy

This is another subject that is pretty heavy. Similar to the radiation information, there is just so much to say. This is also a subject that is very close to my heart. I grew up with a big glass of milk everyday and probably with every meal. I will confess that ice cream has been considered a food group for me. Cheese has also become a staple in our diets. Pretty much take any entree and put cheese onto top to make it better. This is of course one of the hardest things for me to give up with my new raw diet.

I am happy to say that Ryan has agreed to share our findings on dairy. We both had an amazing experience at Hippocrates but even the founder, Brian Clement, told us that if we just took his word and didn't look for more sources to back up the information he was sharing we were doing ourselves an injustice. We have both been reading anything we can get our hands on. I am in the process of reading The China Study. This book has been the catalyst for us taking the dairy portion of our diet seriously. They have studies that show how dairy can turn cancerous tumors on and off. AMAZING! I challenge you all to read this book. Ryan will explain in depth the information that we acquired from The China Study. I have also read Dr Weil's books. I think he has a great take on a healthy lifestyle for someone who is still pretty healthy. He has an eight week program that seems somewhat easy to adapt to your lives.

This dairy subject may last for a few posts because it is almost imposable to sit down and put your head around all of the information there is to share. Just a thought to leave you with. Why is it that humans are the only species that continue to drink milk through out their lives while all other animals eventually ween off their mothers. Also, we are the only species that drink another animals milk. I was given this same information over 10 years ago and I choose to ignore it completely. I just thought to myself, how can something that is supported by our government and seen as a healthy staple in our diets be bad for you. I wonder now what would have happened if I had just listened and had been open to the idea of scary dairy. So , I ask you to be open and for once don't trust you instincts. When it comes to dairy they are probably wrong.

Friday, March 28, 2008

Update On Cancer Gal Pals

I have received an overwhelming personal response to my last posting . So I feel responsible to follow up with more news of the girls. I was supposed to see Andrea this past week but she wasn't really up for company so that has been postponed. I have still not heard from Valerie, but I will try and call her again soon. However, I did get a phone call from Erica last night! We talked for over an hour. I love that girl. Against much criticism she is passing on the chemo regimine and only doing radiation. Her doctors told her she will only have 9 months to live if she goes this route. I say, how many stories have we all heard about doctors telling you how long you have to live and they are completely wrong! She has such a great positive attitude and infectious spirit. I am hoping to see her soon. The crazy part is that the reason she didn't call me back after the second call was that she was in Mexico with her husband! I love that she was somewhere nice and enjoying her life. I hope all of you have a wonderful weekend enjoying yours!

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Losing It

Last week was an extremely hard week for me. On Thursday I found out about the fertility facts. They were upsetting but reality set in on Friday. I have many friends that I have met through my cancer journey. One of them was my friend Varda. I met her in the dog park about five years ago. She is one of the most quick witted and intelligent people I have ever met. We had always had an arms length relationship until about 6 months ago when she told me that she had stage 4 ovarian cancer. Her cancer actually started out as cervical but went undetected for so long that it spread and became extremely serious. Varda and I would get our dogs together and we would just talk all day. I tried to talk her into going to Hippocrates with me but she was part of a clinical trial for a new chemo and missing even one treatment would get her thrown off the trial. Before I left she was doing really well and had just had a scan that showed no signs of cancer. We were both so excited. I promised her that when I returned I would show her the raw diet and bring Hippocrates to her. I actually called her on Thursday before I went to the doctor and didn't hear back. On Friday I received another call from another friend in the dog park who informed me that Varda passed away on Wednesday and Thursday was her funeral. I just couldn't believe it. Only six weeks ago we were laughing and her scan was clean and now she was gone. Needless to say I was a mess. I am sure many of you have lost loved ones in your lives and nothing ever really prepares you for it. For me, it was my first cancer friend that didn't make it. It hit home. I am still terribly upset by her passing. I truly believe that the chemo just kept breaking down her immune system until it just shut down. Things happened so fast. I will miss her so much and just hope she is in a better place.

Then the next phone call was my friend Andrea. Remember me talking about her before? www.punkrockmommy.org She has also been on chemo for over a year now and she found a growth in her neck that was confirmed to be cancer. They also found spots on her liver. So basically the chemo is not stopping the cancer. It has found a way to spread and is now in one of her major organs. This is very bad news. She talked about going on the intense chemo I was on during my treatment. Since that day it sounds like she is going to look for other options which I am happy to hear about. The doctors told her she had about 6-9 months to live. I am so afraid of that day when I call her cell phone and there is no answer. When will this stop?

After all of this bad news, I decided to try and get in touch with the rest of my cancer friends. Valerie that I met in Radiation has not returned my call. Erica, who I met in Florida at Hippocrates, has not returned any of the three messages I have left. One of the messages included a plea from me to just let me know that she was alright and that I was very worriedabout her. Of course I think the worst. Hopefully they are just in St. Maartin like I was and they are relaxing and enjoying life.

Now that last week is over it really gives me a reality check about my fertility news. Here I am upset about not being able to have my own children. When really I should just be amazed that I am still feeling good and enjoying my life. So if maybe today isn't going so well for you put yourself in any of my friends shoes and feel extremely lucky. As one of my friends late father used to say," We are all just a breath away."

Thursday, March 20, 2008

Oh Baby!

Today I went to see a fertility specialist. Ryan and I were thinking about starting a family before my diagnoses. As you can imagine that was put on hold. Now that things are looking up for me we wanted to find out what our options were. We have had many discussions about if having a baby was really a good idea or not. Cancer has a sneaky way of coming back. Especially a cancer as progressive as mine. We decided that we were not going to let cancer dictate our lives. No one knows how long they will live. Who knows I could out live Ryan. We just can not live our lives with the idea that I will not live a long time. It seems to be a very negative place to come from.

So let me back up to one of my first appointments with my Oncologist. My parents were there and my Mother had the foresight to ask if I would be able to have children when this chemo regimen was finished. The doctor pretty much brushed us off and said if I were to get my period back then I would be able to have children. We didn't think that this was a very good answer but at the time we had very little choice in the matter. It was more about saving my life then trying to create another. Until today I just kept thinking that when I got my period back then we could start trying to have a baby. It seemed almost a miracle to us that we could start thinking about the future and the possibility of children. Well, as it turns out a miracle is exactly what it would be for my to have a child of my own. The chemo drugs that I was taking are known to pretty much shut down most women's reproductive organs. My fertility doctor told me today that if I still have eggs it is very likely that they are damaged. I asked if she has ever seen a chemo patient on the drugs I was on conceive. She said, yes... one. I asked about the probability of me conceiving naturally. She said in the very low single digits. I said, "like 5%?" I guess I was shooting high. She made a face and said that it was probably lower due to the fact that I am over thirty.

She then told me the good news. Which is, even though I could not conceive my own child with my eggs, I could still carry a child and use an egg donor with Ryan's sperm. Two of my sisters have offered to do just that. Of course, offering and doing are two different things. Time will tell if the offer still stands. The doctor did order a bunch of tests for me today to check all of my levels. This will tell her if I am in early menopause from the chemo. We have decided to wait awhile before making any quick decisions but as she pointed out, my sisters are not getting any younger either (sorry girls).

Sitting in the doctors office I was very stoic. Similar to when I was diagnosed with cancer. I just took in all of the information and felt like I was talking about some other poor woman's situation. The biggest difference is that today when I got in my car and started driving, tears just started rolling down my face. I think I cried today realizing that there will most likely never be a little Kristine look-a-like crawling around causing trouble and talking back to her mother. I guess any women that has been told she can not have children of her own has gone through this feeling. It is just really sad to me right now. However, I have so many friends that have adopted children and have used egg donors and have beautiful families. There is still so much hope.

Saturday, March 15, 2008

Sweet Vacation

I meant to write before we left but as you all know, getting ready for a vacation is overwhelming!! Ryan and I are in Saint Maartin in the Carribean. This is a much needed get away. We are just relaxing, going to the beach, and, of course, a little shopping. The weather has been perfect. We are just enjoying being alive! We have not taken a vacation since our last Feb. visit to Aspen which you all know didn't turn out so well.

I will be continuing my blog writing when we return next week on Thursday. Ryan has been reading a book called The China Study. It is about how food effects our bodies and it has a lot of scientific facts that support everything I have been writing about. So, look for a blog posting from Ryan soon. He is dog earring pages that he wants to share with you. Hope you are well. We are sending you big love from the Carribean.

Kristine

Friday, March 7, 2008

Radiation Everywhere!

I have been putting off writing about this topic because it is really overwhelming all of the information that I have been given in the past few months. I am going to try and cover as much as possible today.

I will start by talking about my past treatments. First of all I will touch on my chemotherapy. I find that it is just a crazy way to fight disease. You basically pump the body full of poison and slowly kill everything including all of your good cells with the hope that you will be able to kill or slow down the bad ones. In the process many people actually end up dying from chemo rather then dying from cancer. I was one of the lucky few that was able to bounce back from chemo. However, what price did I pay for that regimen? I just think about what my heart and kidneys had to go through just to process out all of the toxic chemicals. Actually, what they are still going through. They say it will take up to a year until my body is back to normal. Some day I think we will look back at the chemo process like we look back at blood letting. CRAZY!!

Then came radiation. This is one of the most interesting parts of my treatment because you could actually watch my skin changing color everyday. First of all let me tell you about my visit with the radiologist. He was a very nice man but while I was there he told me that usually sarcoma's do not respond to radiation. O.K. so why I am I doing it then?? I look back on my experience and realize that I did not ask many questions or challenge the things that were being done to me. I just followed like a good little patient and trusted everything the doctors told me. I now wish that I would have been better informed and had asked more questions. For instance, doesn't radiation cause cancer?? I am confused why a cancer patient would be subjected to 2 months of radiation. When I was getting my treatments the girls would set me up and then close a metal door that was about 6 inches thick and leave the room because they did not want to be exposed to any radiation. Interesting?? Now my skin got darker and darker as my treatments continued. When I finished I had a burn the size of a small salad plate on my shoulder. The skin eventually peeled off and you could no longer even see that I had any kind of treatment. It was very similar to getting burned by the sun. Then I went to Hippocrates and they started me on my cleanse. Part of my cleanse involved supplements to help get the toxins and chemicals out of my body. After about one week the burn mark from my radiation started to reappear. It is crazy to think that after a month I still was still carrying around those damaging toxins from my radiation and my body was getting rid of them the same way it received them. Through my skin. My skin is still discolored until this day. I am watching it carefully because I feel like it is part of this healing journey to rid myself of all of the poisons that have been pumped into my poor body.

While I attended Hippocrates many of the lectures talk about radiation and how we are all exposed everyday and how that is effecting our health. I think one of the most powerful points was when they talked about why the cancer rate in Marin county is higher then any where else in the world. They do lectures up there quite a bit and many people will approach them and say, "I don't understand why I have cancer because I have been a raw vegan for ten years and have followed your program to the tee." The answer is quite scary. Marin county is extremely beautiful with rolling hills everywhere. It is also a place of great wealth where people demand the best of everything. This being said it also contains the most cell phone towers of any where in the country. They are unavoidable. These towers send out so much radiation everyday. There are so many towers so close together and the ironic part is that they still don't get great reception. So it is not only about what you put in your body but it is also about the environment you live in. Let me elaborate.

Chemicals on our food of course, but how about the chemicals in our cleaning products, hair and make up products, soaps and body cleansers. Have you ever read any of these labels? The ingredients are filled with all sorts of chemicals that you nor I could even pronounce. There are natural products available but for some reason we just continue using what we know. I am still doing it!! I need to take my own advice. Everyday I change something in my environment. I am not throwing everything out of my house but when I am finished and it is time to buy a new product. I am reading labels. My body deserves that.

Now lets talk about electronics. This is some scary stuff. We are using cell phones non stop. How many of us don't even have home pones anymore? The statistics are unsettling. I did not challenge where they got their facts but I will just pass on what I was told.

1. Using a cell phone more then an hour a week can cause brain damage that can lead to cancer.

2. Children under the age of 16 using cell phones are 48 times more likely to get brain cancer. Yes I did say 48 more times.

3. Using computers is a direct form of radiation. Using lap tops on your actual laps is radiation going right to your reproductive areas. Put something in between you and your computer! Working all day on computers isn't only hard on the eyes.

4. T.V.'s also give off radiation. Be careful not to sit too close. How about how long our kids play video games. YIKES!

5. Going through airport x-ray machines of course have radiation but did you know the whole time you are on the plane you are getting radiation as well. Have you ever wondered why pilots and flight attendants can only work so many hours? They are also known to be among the sickest professionals.

I feel like there are many more examples but I can not think of anymore right now. This is our world and technology is not going anywhere. I don't mean to lecture or try and scare you. I am just the messenger. We all need to look at how much of this is in our daily lives and try and reduce it as much as possible. There is a product I will tell you about called Bio Pro. They are small devices that fit onto your computers and cell phones. They also have pendants and small credit cards that fit in your wallet. Basically what these products do is that they absorb the radiation so it is deflected from entering our bodies. I am not good at the technical info so if you want more info or details or studies on these findings. Then check out their website at http://www.bioprotechnology.ca/I have yet to buy any of these for myself because they are expensive but I definitely see the value.

Sorry this blog is so long winded. There was just so much I wanted to say. I hope none of you feel like I am lecturing you because that is not my motivation. I just really want to make sure that I have passed on everything I have learned. What you do with it is your choice. Take good care of yourselves. Love ya,

Kristine

P.S. I found this article that pretty much just states all of the same facts I have been telling you about food. However, sometimes it takes hearing it from multiple sources so if you have time check it out.
http://health.yahoo.com/experts/drmao/12623/food-safety-what-you-need-to-know

Sunday, March 2, 2008

GI JANE

People say that I look like Demi Moore in the movie GI Jane with my new very short hair style. While I was at Hippocrates I wore my wig for the first few days because it was pretty cool and the wig is just like a really nice hat that keeps me warm. As the days went by the temperatures went up and the wig came off. There were a lot of comments on how cute my hair was and how lucky I was that I looked good in short hair and even one guy accused me of having a twin sister with a short red bob. Pretty funny stuff. One night we all went out bowling and one of the guys said I can not imagine you with long hair. I then proceeded to pull out my drivers licence and show everyone my pre chemo look. Everyone said that they liked the short hair better. I am not sure if it was just because they had gotten used to me with my crew cut or if they really meant it. I would like to think that they meant it.

Then comes the real world where people are just being themselves and they don't know me at all. First of all this past weekend Ryan and I went to the mall and I was buying something in one of the stores with my credit card and the young sales clerk asks me for ID. I pull out my license and she looks at the picture and then looks at me with a smirk and says, "When did you cut your hair so short?" (You know she was thinking bad hair cut lady!!) I couldn't resist. I had to reply, "I actually didn't cut it. I had cancer and it fell out during chemo." She was actually really sweet and asked if everything was better now. I of course responded, "yes." I do however, think she will think twice before asking anyone about their hairstyle choices.

Then today I went to the movies with a couple of friends and I was walking toward our designated theatre and I bypassed the man taking the tickets. He of course yells out, "Excuse me Sir!" I then turn around and he immediately says Miss, but by now the damage is done. I of course laugh it off but it does make one think. Cute or not so cute. Maybe all of you keep telling me my hair looks great because lets face it, it looks better then bald, but does it really look good. I am not quite sold. I keep waiting for it to get long enough that I will actually need a haircut and I can have some sort of style other then GI Jane. We all love Demi but not even a movie star could make that hair style work for long. Love ya,

Kristine

P.S. I will try and have Ryan put up a picture of the new hair sometime soon......