Kristine's Passing
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In Loving MemoryKRISTINE BECKER8/21/1970 - 12/25/2009Kristine Ann Becker passed away at 3pm on Christmas Day 2009 after a three year battle with cancer. She was taken by ambulance to the Pennsylvania Hospital ER and later the ICU. Unfortunately her compromised kidneys, lungs and heart as well as natural fatigue were too much for her frail body to handle. She passed away peacefully in my arms.
We are currently working through arrangements and will provide further details in the coming days. Kristine requested that we not host a service for her. We have not yet determined if or when an alternative event will be planned. Kristine's parents and sisters are in town to help.
Kristine is a beautiful woman and she will be badly missed. Please continue to check back for more information and thoughts.
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please let us know what we can do. we love you ry and beckers. xoxo, the kanes
ReplyDeleteRyan and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know this must be an incredibly difficult time for all of you. You are in our thoughts.
ReplyDeleteRyan and the Becker Family.
ReplyDeletePlease know that our thoughts are with you all. If there is anything you need, please let us help.
Love to you all...and Rufus too!
Beth & Mike Mason
Dear Ryan and family,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. I have followed your postings since first hearing about Kristine's cancer while working with her sister Colette. Your journey together has been an inspiration to me about love and caring between two people. Even though I have never met either of you, please know that you have touched my life deeply and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Fred van Hees
Ryan and Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Her passing is a loss to all who knew her.
Jim Schultz
I take comfort that she went peacefully with you by her side, Ryan. You've been unbelievably amazing through all of this. If you find yourself lost and need a friend, please know that you can lean on me.
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you and the Beckers.
Ryan and family, I'm at a loss for words. Kristine was so special to me. I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and keep you. You are an exceptional person, Ryan. Kristine was so fortunate to have you by her side. She will be missed beyond words.
ReplyDeleteBill & Vicki Layser
I am so sorry for your loss. I know she was loved so deeply. Please know that her life and your story has touched and affected so many people. Countless people will never be the same because they knew her or knew of her. I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteDanielle Dobar
My family and I are so very sorry for the loss of such a bright light and remarkable soul. Sending you all sincere prayers of sympathy,
ReplyDeleteLisa Stahl-Eischer and family
Dear Ryan and Becker Family, `
ReplyDeleteWe are so sorry to read this post. Kristine was amazing. I've always admired her strength, beauty and grace. Thank you for keeping us informed as you and Kristine traveled this terrible journey the past 3 years. Please know that you are all in our prayers. Heaven has a beautiful new angel. Kristine will be missed. Love, Jill Boydston
Ryan and Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you all. We have been so blessed to have Kristine in our lives. What an amazing spirit, full of life and love.
Kristine...you are free to fly and dance with the dragonflies! Love, Michelle Ashley
Dear Ryan and The Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteMy heart is heavy. Kristine was a wonderful person and I am proud to have known her as a friend. My condolences go out to you and to all who knew and loved her. Please know that there is an abundance of prayer and compassion being sent your way by many; we all hope it is of some comfort. Thank you for loving Kristine so well.
-Cathy Fleschner
Ryan, Jimmy, Connie, and family, Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Kristine was very special and will be missed. God got a very good and spirited angel yesterday. Bonnie, Brian, Betsy, Jeff, and Beth
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and all my love are with you.
ReplyDeleteSending a big hug across the miles.
Alison
Dear Ryan and the Becker Family: My family and office staff are so terribly sorry to hear of Kristine's passing. She was a lovely, charming and amazing person and she fought such a valiant battle in her will to live. May the wonderful memories of her and her indominable spirit sustain you and the Becker family as you come to terms over her terrible loss.You and her family and friends were truly devoted to her and she was so fortunate in having all of you, and I'm certain that such support sustained her throughout her illness. Much love, Faye Riva Cohen.
ReplyDeleteRyan -
ReplyDeleteYour love for Kristine and hers for you was so very evident in your postings. Everyone should experience what you had and what you will always share. Her passing can and will never take that away. My heart goes out to you all. Words can not comfort you right now but Kristine has made this world a brighter place.
Love, Jen
Dear Ryan and the Beckers,
ReplyDeleteWe are so, so sorry to hear that Kristine has passed away. Our hearts go out to you, and we send you lots of love and hugs. She has gone through so much, and we take some comfort in knowing that she's not suffering any more. Please know that our thoughts are with all of you.
Shell, Cyril, Sophie, Remy, Pascal, Leo, and Camille Benitah
Ryan, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Kristine was truly an amazing person. Her courage, strength and beauty inspired all who knew her. Praying for friends to comfort you, faith to uphold you, and loving memories to help you find peace.
ReplyDeletePlease let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
Love, Jenny Hogan and family
Ryan-
ReplyDeleteYou and the Becker Family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry for your loss and admire the strengh and courage you both have shown over the past three years.
The Wise Family
Oh Becker Clan and Ryan my thoughts are so with you during the time ... you all have been through so very much! Kristine was a bright light that we were all so lucky to have known .. I know I have spent the afternoon sharing Kristine Stories ..Much Love and thoughts Barbara Vale , Mom and Josh
ReplyDeletePlease let us know if we can do ANYTHING
Ryan and family,
ReplyDeleteOur deepest condolences. You are in our thoughts at this very difficult time.
Sangeeta and Madhu
So sorry to hear the terrible news. She fought a good, hard fight. You are all in our thoughts!
ReplyDelete~Jeff and Lisa Koski and kids
Dear Ryan,
ReplyDeleteI felt some solace reading that Kristine's passing was marked by the same grace and dignity you and Kristine maintained over the last three years. You, and the Becker family, are in my thoughts...as is Kristine's unforgettable and inimitable spirit.
Much love,
Kira
I found this blog while seeking leiomyosarcoma. I am so very sorry for Kristine and your family. My 14 year old son died of leiomyosarcoma. www.caringbridge.org/visit/sethsimpson
ReplyDeleteFrom a family that knows of similar heartache, there are no words. I am truly sorry
Ryan,
ReplyDeleteWords cannot begin to express the sorrow we feel for you. Kristine was a wonderful person, with amazing strength and courage. We admire you both. Please let us know if there is anything you or Rufus need.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rachele and Trisha
Ryan--while Kristine touched so many lives with her Spirit, her spunk, her beauty and her grace, you must know how you have touched our lives as well. I am comforted knowing the comfort ,peace and love that Kristine received from you especially in her final moments. Kristine will live on in the hearts of us who love her and you will always be loved by us for loving her so very much. Love to All of you--Aunt Elaine and Uncle Roger
ReplyDeleteRyan and Becker family, So sorry for the loss of Kristine. She was a special person and will be missed by all who knew her.Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.Thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. Liz and Jack
ReplyDeleteWe miss you more than we can say. Our hearts are broken. Ryan, we are here if you need anything. Neil and Mark.
ReplyDeleteKristine I love you forever!!! Thanks for all the wonderful times we spent together there hasnt been a day thats gone by that I havent thought of you. Your memory lives on forever...You truly were a bright light in this life! Thinking of you Beckers and Ryan at this time...
ReplyDeleteLove Trish Farner
Dear Ryan and Becker Family;
ReplyDeleteI was so saddened to hear of Kristine's passing. I am so very sorry for your great loss. Ernie Terry
Ryan, my deepest condolences go out to you and the Becker family. While I did not know Kristine personally, your postings confirmed that she was an amazing person who truely touched the lives of many individuals. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. - Steve Goodman
ReplyDeleteDear Ryan and the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteEven though I have never met you, Ryan, I can tell how blessed Kristine was to have you in her life. Kristine was one of my dearest friends in high school and will be greatly missed. She was a friend to everybody and everybody was her friend. She touched so many people and her genuine love of those around her was inspiring. I will keep all of you in my prayers for peace in this difficult time.
Betty Arn Brendle
Ryan - you and Kristine's family are in our thoughts and prayers. Kristine's amazing spirit and your courage in these past few months is nothing short of amazing. You have both touched so many with your story, approach to life and this terrible disease. The times I saw you together, your love for each other and life in general was evident, and I know that will endure.
ReplyDeleteJen Roberts
Jim,Connie,Gretchen,Stephanie,Colette,Ryan: Our hearts are filled with extreme sadness for you all. Please know that there has not be a day gone by that we have not thought of all of you and your families. Our love to you always, Ann and Scott
ReplyDeleteRyan,
ReplyDeleteJames and I are truly sorry for your loss. It has been evident how much you love her and how lucky you two were to find each other. Our prayers and thoughts will be with you and the Beckers.
Candice Gifford
Ryan,
ReplyDeleteWe are deeply sorry to hear of your loss. Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you now and in the coming days.
-The Hallinans
Ryan,
ReplyDeleteYou don't and won't know how much you've touched my life but your postings and how you've lived the past few years with Kristine have made me want to become a better man. As of now I'll start. I hope you do understand that you've touched many lives as few of us will ever get the change to do. Thanks.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with the Becker family and Ryan.
ReplyDeleteRose Arraut Miller
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteLove, The Spatz Family
We are so very sorry for your family's loss. I should only hope to have her strength and spirit if challenges come my way. She is truly an inspiration to us all. My family sends our love and prayers to all of yours.
ReplyDeleteLove Tim, Kristin, Max and Jack Novak
Ryan,
ReplyDeleteMay God always bless you for being such a wonderful person in Kristine's life. I can only imagine the heavy heart you feel with her loss, but please know how many of us are thinking and praying for you and Kristine's parents, sisters and many, many friends. I ask that you please consider a service for Kristine so that we can celebrate her gusto for life that she shared with us. I'd also like to give you a huge hug in person. Finally, thank you for your eloquent way of sharing the story of Kristine and you. There were many times that I laughed and cried in the same post. You are truly an incredible man- Kristine knew what she was doing when she picked you!
Missi
Ryan --
ReplyDeleteWords could never fully express the love and special bond you and Kristine shared. We have watched you tirelessly fight this battle along side of Kristine and have always been in awe of your love and commitment for each other. You and the Becker family are in our thoughts during this difficult time. When you're ready, we're all here for you.
-- Tamber
Ryan – our thoughts are with you. Kristine’s strength & courage throughout this have been an inspiration. Her incredible spirit showed us a greater appreciation for life and will keep her forever in our thoughts. We feel truly blessed to have seen the love that you share for each other and hope that you can find peace through this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteThe Shermans
Connie and Jimmie, and Ryan and the girls,
ReplyDeleteMy heart felt thoughts are with you. May Kristine's strength and determination carry on with all of you as you continue your lives with her spirit lifting you.
Love, Carla Bitterling
Ryan,
ReplyDeleteAlthough I have only met you and Kristine a few times, I felt close to you both by reading your posts and have always admired the love that you two share. Mike and I would like to extend our deepest condolences to you and the entire Becker family during this difficult time.
Mike and Chris Weaver and Newman
Love to Uncle Jimmy, Aunt Connie, and the family.
ReplyDeleteRyan and Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteYour unwavering strength and love are an inspiration to us all. Our thoughts are with you at this time. Don't hesitate to let me know if we can do anything for you.
Tom Maloney and Kim Musachia
Dear Ryan, Mr. & Mrs. Becker and the entire Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteAs another friend already said, my heart is heavy. It is just so difficult to think of her journey here being over. So, I am hopeful that her journey is starting new and will be a forever beautiful one...........always looking over her loved ones! We are all so blessed to have had her in our life. Kristine will always be an inspiration to me and a reminder of how we should live our lives.............true to ourselves and unconditional towards others! Warmly, Ann Riffel
Dear Ryan and Family,
ReplyDeleteMy deepest sympathy to you all. Kristine was so special and added so much to all of our lives. Her spirit alone could lift anyone up. And she's been so much fun and giving and totally unique in my life. I will miss her always. Please know that my family and I will always be thinking of her and hoping that her energy will help you with your incredible loss. Love, Mary Ann
Ryan and family-
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. The loss you are experiencing right now is impossible to fathom. I hope you draw strength from Kristine's hard fought battle to carry you through this difficult journey. May peace find you and comfort you.
Dearest Becker family,
ReplyDeleteMy heart is so broken for you all. As Stephanie is my dear, dear friend, you are all a very big part of my life. I am so sorry for the loss of Kristine. She was fun and funny and full of life and I was so glad to know her. If there is anything you need at any time, please call me. My thoughts are constantly with you. I love you, Steph,(and your family) and I only hope that the love you all have for each other and Kristine will sustain you through these rough days ahead. My heart goes out to Ryan as well-- may you find joy again in your life-- you deserve it so very much. Take care---
Love,
Angie Meloche (Fender)
Jim,Connie,Ryan and Sisters
ReplyDeleteI'm deeply sorry for everyone's loss. Kristine was a beautiful spirit and will be missed dearly. She would light up any place she would go. I was so lucky to have known her and be a part in her life. My condolences go out to all. Steve
I know first hand how loss of this magnitude effects every ounce of us. How grief consumes us, how life will be completely different without the daily attending, caring, nuturing. That without that daily schedule, that you could feel lost and without direction. Your life and purpose has changed, and now it is important to think in these terms...Kristine is no longer in pain. Although, selfishly we all would want her to be cured, healthy and living blissfully with us all...She celebrated Christmas with Jesus in person. Wendy Antell
ReplyDeleteRyan..I am so sorry to hear the news of Kristine's passing. I hope you can find comfort in these coming days knowing that Kristine has found peace and is free from pain. She will always be with you and no one can take that away. When you are ready, your work family is eager to help, listen and support you in whatever capacity you need. Thinking of you often - Jessica Hickey
ReplyDeleteRyan and the Becker family,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers go out to you all. She was an incredible person and had a wonderful caring partner. You have been and will continue to be an inspiration to so many people. We have just gained a beautiful christmas angel.....
Dick, Jane, Ben and Sam
Dear Ryan, Connie, Jimmy and family,
ReplyDeleteWe share in your sorrow, pray for your continued strength and hoe that peace finds you.
Love, Al & Jane
Dear Ryan and Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteI am soo sorry for your loss. Kristine was such a beautiful person on the inside and the out. We worked together and became instant friends not just business associates. She was always there to listine and always had an incredible smile that no matter what was happening in your life, she made you feel better. I wish there was something i could have done to make her feel better. You all fought such an amazing fight. There was not a day that went by that i was not thinking about Kristine and Ryan and her family. Now the only peace in all of this is that she is not in pain anymore. She physically might not be here but her spirit live on forever.
Ryan, take care of yourself. And one day at a time. If there is anything i can do...
Debbie (philly mag)
Dear Ryan and Becker family,
ReplyDeleteI've been at a loss for words. Kristine meant so much to me, she was an amazing friend. My thoughts and love are with you.
Shannon Nielsen
My sweet sweet soul mate, you take my heart with you. i know you are watching over me as you have already gave me signs all day you were around me. Ryan is an amazing man and we are always thankful for his love, compassion, and endurance. You chose wisely. Knowing you were in his arms is such a comfort. Hannah Kristine lives on in your name and spirit and i will tell her how great her Aunt Tine was and what a special special being you were. I love you infinitely sugar and I will see you on the other side. Get the cards ready, i know you will be running the show up there and the heavens are lucky to have you. I miss you terribly but so releaved you are not in pain. You never waivered in your fight-that is more than anyone i know on earth could do. i will take that fight and make it my own and use it everyday in your rememberance. Love eternal, Cris Farrell
ReplyDeleteTo Ryan and all of Kristine's family,
ReplyDeleteLucy and I were devastated to hear of the news. We both shed more then just a tear when we found out. Kristine was a genuinely warm and caring person who brightened up any room and any occasion. She was a wonderful person to be around and was even more wonderful to talk to. I will deeply miss her. I never wanted to think this day would come, nor can I believe it is here right now. The world just lost a little bit of sunshine with her passing.
No matter what any ones beliefs may be, someone with as much love and kindness as Kristine had on this earth makes me know she has to be looking down over all of us in some way from up above. I will never forget her and I know she will never be forgotten by so many others as well.
Sincerely, Tim and Lucy Albert
We would like to be apart of anything that you may decide to do in Kristine's memory and please know that if there is anything that we can do to help, please do not hesitate to ask. (timalbert80@yahoo.com)
Ryan - You were Kristine's angel the last 3 years, now she will be yours. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kristine's family. Leslie Stapleford
ReplyDeleteDear Ryan and Kristine's family,
ReplyDeleteWe are so sorry to hear the bad news. We hope you feel a bit of comfort in knowing you did everything in your power to help Kristine fight her battle. Our thoughts are with you.
-John and Sarah Harm
Ryan(and family) and the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteSo much of what cancer does on the surface is take away from us. Truly, there is so much it can't take away from us; Those quiet moments I know you were able to each spend with her. We have all had such great opportunity to let Kristine know how she touched our lives so positively. I think we will all agree her spunk and vitality will live on in each of us. My prayers of peace go out to all of you.
Rachel Sawley-Wasmer
Our deepest condolences. Words cannot explain how deeply sorry we are for your loss. You and your families are in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.“May God hold you in the palm of his hand” - An Irish Blessing
ReplyDeleteFrancesca Marie Serafin and family
Ryan and Becker Family, I am truly truly sorry to hear about Kristine's passing. She was a great gal and will always cherish the memories/experiences I shared with her and her family growing up. She will be deeply missed.
ReplyDeleteMike Riebschleger and family
Ryan - My heart goes out to you and the Beckers. Kristine will continue to be an inspiration to everyone in your office family. If any of us encounter difficult times, we all hope to be as strong as you have been.
ReplyDeleteMike Boyle
Our lives are a celebration; if we live them right. Kristine lived hers as one, surrounded by family, friends and a special man who cared for her like none other. Bless all who shared in her celebration of life, even as she fought these past 3 years. My special thoughts and prayers to Uncle Jim, Aunt Connie, Gretchen, Stephanie, Collette, and Ryan.
ReplyDeletePhil Becker
Dear Jim, Connie, Stephanie, Collete, Gretchen and Ryan - We are saddened by Kristines passing, and yet we know that her suffering had ended and that she is in a much better place. My heart breaks for those of you who loved her so much, and will miss her every day of your lives. Her sprit will always be with you. Kristine lived everyday of her life to the fullest. How many of us can say that we do that? She was so full of spunk, fire and love -an inspiration to all of us. So many peoples lives she had touched. Wishing I could be with you all to hold and hug - Deb and Brent
ReplyDeleteDear Ryan & Becker Family - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Kristine. Although I did not know Kristine personally, her life seemed to have exemplified great courage, love & perseverance. She is a role model to us all not only touching the lives of those people she knew but also the people she did not know. Her strength and spirit will live on. Please find comfort in knowing that.
ReplyDeleteMichelle Davis & Family
Dear Ryan and the whole Becker family, our hearts are all so broken. I am so sorry for the pain that you have all endured. I sincerely can not imagine a person on this earth that did not love or appreciate Kristine after knowing her.
ReplyDeleteMay a peace that surpasses all understanding be with you.
Helen Brady Hautz, (Ike88')
Dear Becker Family and Ryan-
ReplyDeleteMy deepest sympathies and love to you all. I am thinking of you and praying for you. Kristine was always someone I admired because she was fearless in the way she lived her life. She fought hard and remained hopeful until the end. This verse is more than fitting for her. "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." 2 Tim 4:7. God Bless all of you and may you know his peace.
Becky Shark (Beyer)
To Ryan and the Becker family....
ReplyDeleteI'm overcome with sadness and joy at the same time. Sadness for having lost such a beautiful soul, and joy for having known her for so many years and watching her grow into a beautiful woman. Kristine was such an upbeat person.....her smile and spirit, infectous. She lived her life fully and with gusto and that's what we should all take away and emulate. Even though she is gone way too soon, she leaves a wonderful legacy. May her spirit and love sustain you as you come to terms with her passing. She may be gone but will not be forgotten. Even though her life was cut short, she experienced life in ways some people never do and hopefully that will help comfort you at this difficult time.
Thank you Ryan for all that you did for and with Kristine. The love you shared was amazing and it is comforting to know that she was SO loved and cherished as she left this world. Kristine found the perfect person to make this journey with her. Now you need to take care of yourself. I know, in time, you will find peace and joy again.....and will forever have 'the gift of Kristine' in your heart.
Pat Bierlein
Love and prayers to u and your family. May Kristine rest in peace now. No more pain. Let people be there for u now It's what they can do and know you have a special angel watching over you. May u find comfort in your magnificent love story. Anonyomus
ReplyDeleteRyan and The Becker Family, I am deepen sadden to hear of Kristine passing. She fought a brave fight. She will live on, as she touched so many lives. Ryan, may you and the Becker family be at peace as Kristine is no longer in any pain. Please know that you have SO many friends that will pray for you and Krisine's family, that your pain will someday be lessen. Sheila Salo(Przygocki
ReplyDeleteTo Ryan, and to Kristines Father, Mother and Sisters and Ruffus,
ReplyDeleteKristine fought the amazing battle that she did with the spirit and force that she did because she loved all of you so very very much much. xoxo
Elaine
Ryan - i am so sorry to hear about Kristine's passing. you and she were inspirational together as well as individuals. my thoughts are with you and her family through this difficult time. she will be greatly, greatly missed. much love and many blessings to you and her family.
ReplyDeletelove - Kimberly
Ryan and Kristine,
ReplyDeleteI am writing this to both of you, because I know Kristine will "hear" this. I have followed both your posts but never commented. I always thought i would take the time to do so, and I always told myself "tomorrow, I'll comment". I didn't understand what I was reading when I first logged on this evening, that Kristine had passed, and tomorrow became today. I won't write that I should have commented sooner, because I didn't. I didn't "take the time". But what i had been wanting to say was: Kristine, what you have in Ryan is something no words can describe, the way he cared for you, loved you, fought for your life. Ryan, You held an Angel in your hands from the moment you met her and through all the times you cared for her, calmed her. Ryan, the love you give to Kristine is something most will never truly experience, that it is a true and undying love. I pray for you now, that you will be in peace,as Kristine is now in peace. And she left this world having the kind of Love and devotion shown to her, that had she never met you, she may never have felt during the most tyring times. A love as true and passionate as yours. Another person wrote how he was touched by your compassion, your love, and that he learned from your posts. I have learned from your posts. God Bless you and keep you, May his face shine upon you, and Grant you peace. Patty
I woke early, thinking of Kristine and this is what came to mind:
ReplyDeleteKristine is one of those rare individuals whose life and spirit will remain an inspiration; her enthusiasm for life was contagious; and her generosity of spirit has touched so many people--in ways big and small. Perhaps the thing I admired most about Kristine (although it's hard to choose) was the conscious choice she made every day to embrace what was best in life, rather than dwelling on the things that were boring, difficult or negative.
Very early in our friendship I recognized Kristine's amazing capacity to live each day this way--choosing to focus on joy, humor, and compassion for others--but over the last three years, even as she was put through the most challenging fight with cancer I have ever witnessed, Kristine never seemed to let the fight diminish her capacity to focus on what is best in life.
May anyone who was fortunate enough to love Kristine continue to be touched by her life, and the spirit of love and joy her life exemplified.
Ryan & the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteWith all our hearts we wish you the most support in this trying and difficult time. Kristine was one of the most important and dearest people in my life. She was a true friend all these years with great support and always a positive out look and great strength. Ryan, thank you for caring so much for Kristine. You are an amazing person. Much Love, Mark Karp
Ryan – My deepest condolences go out to you and the Becker family. You are in my thoughts during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteLen Creswell
Ryan - My deepest condolences to you and the Becker family. May Kristine’s amazing spirit and love that is forever in your heart help you through this tragic time. You are in my thoughts and prayers – Barbara Diana
ReplyDeleteThinking about you kid. Mike T
ReplyDeleteMy deepest sympathies to Ryan and the Becker Family. Even though I never met Kristine, her courageous battle was an inspiration to all. Just know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. Mary Ann Warner
ReplyDeleteRyan and the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteWe were deeply sadden to hear of Kristine's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you Ryan and the Becker family. May you take comfort in each other to get through this difficult time.
Thinking about you, Jason and Sherri Eurich and Family
Ryan, Jimmy, and Connie,
ReplyDeleteWe wish we could think of something different to say than all of the thoughts of those above. I believe we all feel the same sadness at the passing of a truly courageous and beautiful soul. Ryan, thank you for a great service by keeping us informed during these trying times.
Karin and Bob Andrews
I have been following Kristine's blog since I myself was diagnosed with cancer in 2007. We even shared a couple emails. It was Kristine that gave me my motto "kickin' cancer's ass". I even had it printed on t-shirts. While we never met face to face, through this blog, I found Kristine (and Ryan) to be tenacious, diligent and an amazing fighter(s). I was terribly saddened by the news of her passing. I am so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Cheri Thiel
ReplyDeleteRyan,
ReplyDeleteOver time people may forget the words that you have spoken, they may forget what you have accomplished, but people never forget how you made them feel. While we did not know Kristine well, your story, your fight and your love for one another has touched us all!
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeff and Robynn Margasak
Ryan,
ReplyDeleteSometimes is hard for us to understand God's will, but I'm pretty sure He had greater plans for Kristine in His world and because of that had to take her to His side earlier than everyone expected.
I believe faith is the only thing that can comfort our hearts in a moment like this, so I hope faith will help you to find peace.
We all admire you so much for everything you have done in these past three years and for the great person you are.
I will pray everyday for you and the Becker family. God bless your souls.
Carolina Souza
I wish I had words that could help with the hurt of your loss...She is in no more pain which is good, but that means she is no longer here with us. I've know Kristine through her sister Gretchen. she was always a ray of sunshine even as a pesky little sis!!
ReplyDeletePlease know we all have you in our thoughts and prayers!!
Time helps with the loss, but ache never quite goes completely away.
Thinking of you all...
Patty Pignatelli
Dear Ryan and Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteI was so saddened to read of Kristine's passing. Throughout all the years that we worked together at the Hyatt, her energy and indomitable spirit along with her love of life and beauty made her an unforgettable force. The battle she waged over the past three years was heroic. I know now that she is pain free and at peace. She will be a great source of inspiration for all of us. Ryan, you are just simply an amazing human. We should all be so lucky to be so loved as you loved Kristine. We would like to participate in some way to celebrate Kristine's life.
Love,
Diana and Terry Nelson
To our dear friends the Beckers and Ryan. We are so sorry to hear of Kristine's passing. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. There really aren't any words to comfort you ,but to know we care and wish we could take the pain away.
ReplyDeleteMay God comfort you all. Kristine fought a courageous battle with the love and support from her loyal family and loving Ryan.
With Love and deepest sympathy,
The Mikoleizik family
Ryan,Jimmy,Connie and family,I just heard about Christine's fight with cancer last week. I am so sorry for your loss. Ryan what a special person you are, Christine was very lucky to have you in her life. Connie and Jimmy my heart goes out to you and your family. I wish there was an easy way to take away the pain, but I believe we need to feelthe grief to heal. You have a very strong and loving family, share your love and memories, tears and laughter will get you through. Please us know if there is anything I can do, I have been remembering the fun times we had at your house when the kids were young. I am praying for all of you.
ReplyDeleteJeannie Loiacano
Ryan
ReplyDeleteKristen and I knew each other from our parents and went to school together, Kristen a few other friends and I drove down to Flordia together for spring break.
Ryan and family
I wish I would have known earlier and been able to read your blog and tell Kristen what a kind, caring and strong person I thought she was. The kristen I remember had so much energy and used that energy to stand up for what she believed in. After reading much of the blog I have to say she had some special people in her life that cared so much for her. I will be thinking of her and all of you and praying for all of you to find strength and comfort during this time. God Bless
Gina Loiacano
Dear Ryan & the Becker family, I am so sorry to hear of Kristine's passing, I only had the pleasure of meeting and getting to know her for three weeks but that was enough to know she was a great person and will be greatly missed.
ReplyDeleteWith love and deepest sympathy
Grazia Poole xxxxx
Kristine made an impression on everyone she met. I only knew her briefly and met her weeks before her diagnosis. She made quite an impression and I followed her story and prayed for a happy ending. Alas, God had another plan for Kristine. She is with him now and there is no more suffering. Even though we will miss her earthly spirit we now have an angel on the other side looking out for us all. Godspeed on your new journey, Kristine.
ReplyDeleteIn the short time that I got to know you and Kristine I learned what truely amazing people you both are. Please know that your dedication, determination and true companionship left me in awe. I pray that you can find peace with Kristine's passing and please know that she is at peace now as well.
ReplyDeleteJody Gingerich
Ryan, Beth and I want to wish you a Happy New Year and we are always here for anything you need. We love you and Kristine.
ReplyDeleteMike & Beth
So sorry to hear the news. May the lord be with you during these difficult times.
ReplyDeleteJim Spradlin and family
After reading your blogs about Kristine's battle I am wholly reminded of what spirit we have in all of us--sometimes it takes the unfortunate and untimely loss of another to help us realize what we haven't been able to before. Kristine and I were grades apart but I remember her beautiful smile and her way of making people feel accepted. May God be with you and her entire family.
ReplyDeleteMy deepest sympathies and all of my love to Mr and Mrs Becker and the Sisters. Our girl will be deeply missed. Love, J.J.
ReplyDeleteDear Ryan, friends and the Becker family, I was on vaction in Florida went I heard the news about Kristines passing. She was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed. To Ryan you have truly been her earth angle. May god bless all of you in this time of need. Many great memories of Kristine will live in me forever.
ReplyDeleteMuch love to you all, Heidi Chapman (Nicklyn)
i am humbled and honored to have been Kristine's friend. if we all could only have the courage, braveness and optimism that kristine showed over the last three years. my memories of kristine will live in my heart forever.
ReplyDeleteryan and the beckers, please know we are here for you.
love, jeanna
Dear Ryan and the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear the news about Kristine. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this extremely difficult time.
Dee Tanner
Dear Ryan and the Becker's,
ReplyDeleteI noticed the house seemed eerily quiet over the holidays and thought perhaps you/they were away -and hoped for some good news when I signed in to the blog today. I am very saddened by Kristine's passing and at the same time relieved she is at peace. Kristine valiant fight was an incredible inspiration. And, while I know no words can ease your sorrow, I hope you find some comfort in your wonderful memories and the support of others. I feel blessed to have known Kristine and my heavy heart goes out to all of you.
Liz Shapiro
It is with heavy hearts that we extend our heartfelt condolences to the Beckers and Ryan following the passing of their beloved Kristine. Heaven welcomed a Christmas Angel on December 25 following a heroic battle with such a horrible disease. We realize that mere words, no matter how genuine and caring, can’t come close to easing your grief right now. But it is our sincere hope that with each passing day a little relief comes your way, perhaps in simply knowing that Kristine is no longer suffering.
ReplyDeleteWe can only imagine how difficult these last three years have been. As family, looking in from the outside, helpless to do anything but offer support, was frustrating. Please know that we thought of you often, and certainly hoped for one of those miracles you read about. Apparently it's left to a higher power to make any sense of this, because we humans grasp, futilely, for answers to the inexplicable. Why someone so young, so vibrant, with so much more to live and give, is taken so prematurely. Yesterday's history, tomorrow's a mystery, and today is a gift. Hopefully this is not lost on the living, as the Beckers and Ryan endure on in the days and months ahead. We're not sure if time heals all wounds, but we hope that one day soon you'll find yourself cracking a smile here, enjoying a moment there; and, suddenly, like a bright ray of sunshine breaking through the gloom on an overcast day, it occurs to you that that the pain doesn't seem as heavy as it does now.
Ryan, the grace you've displayed under this kind of pressure and heartache is nothing shy of remarkable. Your beautifully written blog entries have been a source of inspiration to the Becker Family, and undoubtedly many others as well. You lived the ordeal and then poured your emotions out publicly in your writings for the benefit of us all. That could not have been easy. We realize it's small solace, but we feel you should know that you've provided a poignant lesson in loyalty, selflessness and unconditional love that should not be lost on any of us. People often bail at the first hint of difficulty--and then there's you, a guy as rare as a successful Detroit Lions season. Much love to the Beckers, and Ryan. Better days await all of you.
Gary, Bentley, Jon, Jan, Jill and Jason Becker
Ryan & The Beckers -- My heart is still very heavy over the news of Kristine's passing. You all have been through so much over the past 3 years. I hope this is the worst you'll ever know.
ReplyDeleteKristine was such an dynamic person -- one that we always looked up to as young girls. Hearing about Kristine's life adventures was so thrilling to us. She LIVED life to the fullest -- she was an inspiration!
You are in my heart,
Andrea (Larsen) Gontina (Colette's friend)
Dear Ryan and the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you through this most difficult time. Kristine was truly an angel on earth and shined brightly everywhere she went. I was blessed to have known her and to call her my friend. I will cherish our friendship and the memories forever. God bless you Ryan, the Becker Family and all Kristine's friends that were her "earthly" angels that loved her so much and vice versa.
She will be sadly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Peace be with her spirit.
Love,
Kathy Pietrowski
Ryan and the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve
Ryan,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss... and know that "loss" doesn't begin to describe the void you'll feel. But please know that your fight and efforts to find ways to support Kristine as she fought cancer has been, and will continue to be insirational for so many. Please know that we are here for you to help in any way.
Kathy Witsil
Dear Ryan, Jim, Connie, Gretchen, Steph, and Colette, I have stuggled to find the right words since the 26th. Having been throgh this w/ my parents, I know the raw emotion and hurt. You have had amazing support from so many which reflects on the special person Kristine was. I have been destraught and tearful to think that she truly is gone until yesterday. I pulled up to a stoplight in town and looked over to see Jim and Connie in the car next to me. I really feel there was a reason for that happening, and I believe that was a sign from God that Kristine is alright. After many tears after driving away, I felt a smile. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I am very blessed to have her as my friend and I thank you Jim and Connie for all of the memories I have spending time with your family. I pray that you all will find peace one day and know that Kristine and Ryan have touched the lives of so many people. Our Pastor at Peace Lutheran ends our service every Sunday with this blessing that gives me hope through the week. I hope it will give you hope as well. "May the Lord Bless You and Keep You, May He Make His Face Shine Down on You, and Give You His Peace.
ReplyDeleteAll of Love, Jodi and Pat Kelly and family
Ryan and Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteMy heart is heavy and sad, and goes out to all of you. Kristine was a brave and special person, and I can only imagine the pain you are all feeling. We are saying special prayers for Kristine and all who cared for her.
JD Boydston
Kristine. Today, I lay on the couch, listened to music, put everthing aside, and thought only about you and all the memories we shared. It was great! You are so beautiful . . . so kind . . . so special. Thank you for spending this day with me reminiscing. John M.
ReplyDeleteRyan and the Becker family, Words cant express the saddness I feel for u all. I have known the Becker Family since Collette was small. They use to live behind my parents house on Eric James court. I am so sorry to hear about losing someone so dear and for what she went through the last several years. Please know that u are all in my prayers and that u remember the good times u all had with her. The Becker Family was such a close and sweet family..
ReplyDeletePraying for all of u,
Molly (Simmons) Sharlow
To Ryan & Kristine's Family -
ReplyDeleteKristine touched so many people, her zest for life was contagious. Ryan, she was blessed to have you in her life, and we are all so thankful for the way in which you kept us connected to her throughout such a difficult journey.
To her family - words will never be adequate. We'll all miss her. My love, prayers, and hope for memories that lift your spirits.
Lisa Davy
Dear Ryan and the Becker Family,
ReplyDeleteKristine was a fun, loving, wonderful woman who was part of our lives for a while. There are always good, fun memories whenever I think of Kristine. It is hard not to keep checking here to see a different outcome. I know that everyone here has wished the same. We all have our own little memories to keep us smiling whenever we think of her. Even though I had not seen her in a while, she will be sadly missed.
My condolences go out to all that loved her.
Kristine, Ryan and the Beckers have all fought a brave fight and she was a lucky woman to have such support.
We love you Kristine. You were truly the
"Wonder Woman".
Barbara & John
Dear Ryan, Colette and family,
ReplyDeleteMy name is Beth Buchanan. I use to work at Pembroke the year before Colette became principal.
What beautiful love you shared with the world Ryan. Take refuge in that love for that is eternal. You and your family are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Beth Stevenson Buchanan - Birmingham public schools.
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Becker and Family, I am Christie Ivey Miiller. Colette is married to my nephew, Justin and I met you all at their wedding. I was so sorry to hear of Chrisrine's passing. Please accept My deepest sympathy. Reading the blog has helped to know what a poised, gracious and very brave person Christine was. May you all find comfort from her spirit and God's love. Love, Christie Miller
ReplyDeleteRyan -
ReplyDeleteIt was so good to see you today. I can't even imagine how difficult it was for you. There are so many things I wanted to say to you when you stopped by my desk but I didn't want to make you upset. So I decided to post on the blog.
As part of your work family we will always be here for you. We will give you space when you need space. We will listen when you need an ear. We will keep you busy when you need to be kept busy. We will make you laugh with silly nonsense when you need to laugh.
I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that.
If there is anything I can do for you please do not hesitate to ask. Anytime you want to go for a beer the first ones on me (okay maybe all of them). :)
All my best,
Jen DeVoll
Dear Ryan,
ReplyDeleteI have spent the last two evenings reading your blog. I was doing a search for Leiomyosarcoma & Lymphoma. A dear Friend was diagnosed this past summer with Leio and has suffered with Lymphoma from her waist to her toes for the last few months. So far she has had one tumor removed from her abdoman, radiation on a tumor found in her first scan after surgery and has many tumors in her lungs causing her to have the cough that stays.
Reading your blog has givin me some incite into what we probably have ahead of us. I hope that I can keep as positive an attitude as you did.
Thank you so much for sharing you're lives with me.
Robyn
Dear Ryan,
ReplyDeleteJust a short note to let you know we are thinking of you.
Jill Boydston