Sunday, April 1, 2007

4/1 - Day 14, Cycle 1: Heading into Her Good Week of Cycle

As the adage goes, "no news is good news" and it certainly fits Kristine's story over these past few days. Kristine's been getting outside walking and enjoying the fresh air. Her weight is nearly back to normal (most of the retained fluid has disappeared) and her appetite is equally healthy. She still gets exhausted at even the mention of household tasks. Although I suspect that this is more a mental side effect of being waited on hand and foot over the past two weeks than it is from the chemo. Of course, I can't prove this with any certainty. So her mom and I will continue to do the chores when they need to be done and dance around like trained monkeys when Kristine needs a laugh -- after her miserable week of chemotherapy, I think we would do almost anything for a glimpse of her brilliant smile and laugh.


Kristine's cousin Cris (left inset) was in over the weekend and her Aunt Jan is in for the next week. Her mother will remain in town for a few more weeks until she heads back to Texas for a short reprieve. Having family in town has really helped keep her spirit high and attitude positive. And as you can image it's been incredibly helpful for me to distribute some of the burden. You can see just how helpful Kristine's dad Jim was with our dog Rufus and foster dog Lucas in the photo to the right. (In all seriousness he really was helpful... when he wasn't napping.)

I mentioned in the last blog that Kristine hasn't yet lost any of her hair. She had it cut shorter to minimize the "mess" (her words) when it does start coming out. She said this morning that her scalp felt a little funny... tingly -- the first sign of imminent alopecia (i.e., hair loss). And a few times throughout the day as she ran her hand through her hair more than a few strands detached freely into her fingers. She said that she will likely avoid brushing or washing her hair for a few days to prolong the feeling of a full head of hair.

20 comments:

  1. Kristine,
    I work in Livonia with your sister, Colette, as an elementary principal, too. I simply adore her and think she’s one of the kindest and best people I know. She shared your website with us shortly after she told us about your health and asking us to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. I can tell you are constantly in her thoughts during our meetings. I am so happy to read that you are getting outside for walking and enjoying the weather. Good for you! Treatments or not, it probably is time that you were treated in a manner to which you deserved – sort of royalty-like, :-) At any rate, I wanted you to know I hold you in my prayers daily. Though the path may be challenging at times, you will finish it, and I hold a vision of you as healthy and whole when you come to the end of your treatments.

    Kristine,
    The light of God surrounds you,
    The love of God enfolds you,
    The power of God protects you,
    The presence of God watches over you;
    Wherever you are, God is, and all is well.

    Blessings and much care,
    Ernie Terry

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  2. Boy oh boy, somethings never change in the family dynamics. You know Aunt Connie doing all the work and Uncle Jimmy doing what Uncle Jimmy does best (just kidding Uncle Jimmy. I love you). Kristine, it makes me smile to hear that you are feeling better. Ryan, thank you for the wonderful updates. I continue to keep you all in my prayers. Love and thinking of you often, Kelly

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  3. Kristine,

    I wanted you to know that I won you back in a thumb wrestling rematch contest against Len...You are now mine again baby!!!...:)
    Get better soon...I'm thinking of you always....Mike

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  4. Greathere you are doing well!
    You are in my thoughts everyday!
    Barbara

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  5. Hi Kristine,
    I am here holding Stephs hand and in turn, holding yours. I was so happy to hear she had a good time with you and you were feeling good. Keep it up!!
    Always thinking good things for you-- I am sending all my sons testosterone-filled energy your way!!
    Love,
    Angie(Fender)Meloche and family
    Hi to your mom and thanks Ryan.

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  6. Thank you Ryan for the constant updates! Kristine, we are so happy that your spirits are high. I hope we can have a visit soon - I miss you! You are always in our thoughts and prayers. I love the new haircut - you look beautiful as always :)

    Love, Jeanna and Rusty

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  7. Hey Kristine,

    You look fabulous in the picture with your cousin, Cris. I'm so happy to hear you and Ryan were out enjoying this beautiful weather. Liz Shapiro mentioned she saw you.

    Have a great week and know I'm thinking about you, Ryan, your family and the doggies, of course!

    Love,
    Kathy and Ruby :)

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  8. Hi Stiner!
    Thinking about you everyday! So happy to her that the water weight is dropping and you are up and about! Great picture of you and Kris! Jake has been working on his dance moves so get ready for a big dance off once you are 100%! He's got a mean "deep knee bend" and his "twist" is out of this world. Not to mention his amazing "jazz hands".

    Miss you tons and can't wait to see you soon!

    Love - J.J.

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  9. Hi Kristine,

    So glad to read that you are up and around!

    I think of you always - take care of yourself.

    Lots of love, Barger

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  10. Kristine,

    I'm glad to hear that your doing better and taking advantage of a great american invention - the milkshake. I hope to see and hear from you soon. Best wishes.

    Ben J.

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  11. Kristine, Ryan--
    Greetings from the Shore. Thinking of you lots. Makes me smile to know that you are smiling!
    Much love,
    Kira

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  12. Hi, Kristine!
    Glad to hear you're being waited on... if I can get down there, I have a mean poo-poo dance I do for Paige to get her "going" that would surely make you laugh. TMI, sorry. I sent a couple photos of you from the past... how come you look EXACTLY the same? So not fair. Must be all that healthy food you eat!@ I look forward to hearing your progress reports and to seeing your new locks...
    Love your way from Missi H. W.

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  13. Hi Kristine,
    Just a note to say you look as beautiful as ever! Glad to see you are getting out and about and enjoying the Spring! Up here it can't decide whether it's winter or spring! Take care thinking of you always. Love Jane J.

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  14. Dear Stiner,
    A blast from the past here. So, you are now in Philly? I am your Maryland neighbor. I just received a forward of your blog tonight and had to say HI and let you know I'm sending all my positivity your way. That Ryan sure is one special fellow. It sounds like you have many blessed hands to care for you. Your pictures show that you are exactly as beautiful and cheerful as I remember (and it's been a lot of years, hasn't it!?). Know that you have one more friend here in MD with you in their thoughts and prayers. :)
    Warmly,
    Cathy Fleschner

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  15. Kristine and Ryan,
    Great to hear that you are out and about! Enjoy that fresh air. We are thinking about you everyday. Hayden sends drooly kisses and Sparky sends some of his endless energy!
    Love,
    Kelly, Adam, Hayden, and Sparky

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  16. Kristine, Hey Lady, I here your doing well with your appetite.Glad to here that you have been getting outside.I got your message from Beth about getting my calls,I understand when I don't here back from you,at times it's good to just here a familar voice.I saw your haircut,now you look even more like Demi More.It looks great.It doesn't matter long,short or what ever,you will always be the same Kristine I know.With all the wonderful people that you are surrounded by ,I want you to know ,you the best support anyone could want(Ryan,Mom,Dad,other family and friends)WEll LADY you KEEP UP THE FIGHT and again I WIIL KEEP UP with the PRAYERS for oyu Ryan,Family and Friends God Bless, Always with LOTS OF LOVE Latney Bagby (CSC)

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  17. Kristine, Hey Lady, I here your doing well with your appetite.Glad to here that you have been getting outside.I got your message from Beth about getting my calls,I understand when I don't here back from you,at times it's good to just here a familar voice.I saw your haircut,now you look even more like Demi More.It looks great.It doesn't matter long,short or what ever,you will always be the same Kristine I know.With all the wonderful people that you are surrounded by ,I want you to know ,you the best support anyone could want(Ryan,Mom,Dad,other family and friends)WEll LADY you KEEP UP THE FIGHT and again I WIIL KEEP UP with the PRAYERS for oyu Ryan,Family and Friends God Bless, Always with LOTS OF LOVE Latney Bagby (CSC)

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  18. Just working late and thinking of you and how important it is to enjoy life - so hope is all going well - I went a little card crazy and have been sending them everyday - so maybe you have something to enjoy each day - knowing my luck they will come on the same day :-D
    Hang in there - there is lot's of love in this world for - reading this blog just proves how amazing of person you are!
    Barbara

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  19. Hi Kristine,
    Just checking in, you seem to be doing great. I am soo happy to hear! Let me know when it is ok to stop over. Would love to share a milk shake or what ever your appetite calls for.
    Here's to many more good days.
    Miss ya lots.
    Debbie (Philly Mag)

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  20. Hi Kristine, The Murphy's here in Westbecker Woods! We continue to pray for you and your family. Tim is going to "see" your mom tomorrow (dental work!). Several neighbors have asked about you; we send them to your website. Ryan's doin' a great job of keeping us all informed and it sounds like you're handling the treatments with Verve and the Becker smile. Love, The Murphy's

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